Find a book closely related to children's life, take children to read the characters in the book, constantly guide children to look at problems from the perspective of the characters in the book, explore the reasons for the formation of characters' behavior and personality, and encourage children to think more about the psychological activities of characters in specific situations. Let the children enter the story book and describe the story in the language of the characters in the book.

Parents can play more games, "say antonyms" or "generate new meanings in the opposite order". Such as "toothbrush", "brushing teeth" and "performance" Older children should be encouraged to express their views. For example, adults say that "advice when least heeded is helpful to action", while children may retort that "advice when least heeded is helpful to action"; Parents say "you can't walk around without rules" and children say "you can walk around without rules". As long as the child can understand, he will think seriously. This "counterattack" after reverse thinking deserves encouragement and appreciation.

When taking children shopping, don't tell them what budget to make, but let them design a shopping list according to family needs, and then adjust it according to the on-site price; Encourage children to clear their minds first, so that children can understand that the answer is not the most important, but the most important thing is the process of thinking. In daily life, every parent should pay attention to training their children's reverse thinking ability when they were young, that is, communicating with their children in passive voice instead of active voice. As time goes on, children's anti-thinking ability will be gradually cultivated and their anti-thinking consciousness will be improved. In the process of normal parent-child interaction, parents can guide their children to adapt some classic stories or fairy tales from a new perspective, so that children can tell stories from their own perspective and think about things from another perspective.

Finally, the way to improve the ability of reverse thinking is to use "brainstorming" This way of thinking can promote children's intellectual development. Many parents don't like their children to be stupid. In fact, your training method may be wrong. A good training method can make children's intelligence develop rapidly. The way we think and solve problems determines how much time we spend doing something and the results we get. The results are different for different people. Some people spend a short time to complete the task, while others spend twice as long to complete the task. This different way of thinking will lead to completely different time and effect.