Have you ever felt this way? As night fell, I dragged my tired body home, went downstairs and habitually looked at the familiar window. If there is yellow light outside the window, I suddenly feel a warm current.
The city in the dead of night, the 24-hour bookstore, and the lighting of the bookstore bring the warmth of the citizens' homes.
Gorky said that "books are the ladder of human progress". Bookstore is a place where knowledge is gathered, full of scholarly atmosphere and humanistic atmosphere. Bookstore is a place to display national culture and the spirit of the times, which can provide spiritual food for people's cultural growth and cultural nourishment for social progress.
Citizens who like reading at night come to bookstores, abandon the prosperity and noise of the city and enjoy reading quietly. College students who come here for self-study in the middle of the night embody the valuable qualities of diligence and thirst for knowledge. Migrant workers improve themselves through reading and strive to change their destiny. Tramps and scavengers may come to bookstores because there is no place to stay, and they need social concern.
The 24-hour bookstore never drives anyone away, so that those who are eager to learn have a paradise for finding knowledge. Bookstore operators do not consider profit, but pass on a love and warmth to others in their own way. Especially for those special groups and vulnerable groups at the bottom, this feeling is admirable.
The clerk said, "Some people often fall asleep watching, but as long as they come to read a book, even if they only read a page or a line, they are all our readers; Even some people just come in to have a rest, and we feel that our work is meaningful. "
"Be yourself, help the world", the clerk is doing himself well, but also sending goodwill to others. There is no consumption behavior when reading books without buying books, but the clerk thinks that such people are also readers of bookstores, and the clerk also thinks that his work is meaningful. The staff treat people who enter the bookstore equally and treat them gently. This warmth comes from respect for people. Rousseau said that "all men are created equal", so is reading. The 24-hour bookstore gives citizens not only knowledge, but also respect and equality.
I still remember Martin Luther King, the leader of the American black civil rights movement, shouting "I have a dream" and calling for democracy, equality and freedom. What is even more memorable is that the door of Hangzhou Library has been open to beggars and has been rated as "the warmest library in history" by netizens. We want to praise the humanistic care of this 24-hour bookstore. They are worthy of being "warm-hearted bookstores".
Everyone is equal before knowledge, society calls for humanistic care, and people share and create harmony. Our society needs more 24-hour business models to convey the warmth between people; Our society needs this midnight light to warm everyone's growing years.
The autumn wind rolled up a pile of fallen leaves on the roadside, like a drunken fanatic rampaging in the street. I rummaged through my pockets and found nothing.
Today, my parents said they would go home late, but I lost my key at this time. It's really rainy It's getting dark, and I can't help but feel a little cold when I look at the warm yellow on passers-by and every window.
Fascinated, I retreated to the side of the road and accidentally bumped into an aunt. "ouch!" A shrill female voice sounded in my ear. "You don't watch the road! How can such a wide road hit people! " I was shocked and bowed my head to apologize. My aunt caught me and was scolded. I kept nodding to admit my mistake and then angrily sent her away. After the accident, I didn't dare to stay in the street, so I went back to the unit downstairs.
The dim street lamp at the door of the unit hangs over the sparsely populated street, stretching my shadow long, and I curl up at the door of the unit like a stray cat. The cold night wind makes me want a warm home more. I hesitated to knock on my neighbor's door and ask him to let me in and so on. But now the relationship between neighbors is just a nodding acquaintance. After the previous accident, I didn't dare to rush forward for fear of being upset.
Just as I hesitated, a chubby voice walked into the unit door. The cold night wind makes me homesick even more. I stared at my aunt in the shop downstairs. I often buy small things for adults, so she knows me. She walked straight up to me and said with concern, "Why are you sitting here? I have seen this place for a long time. " I am embarrassed to explain this situation. Aunt showed a surprised expression and said, "why don't you go to aunt's shop?" Are you still embarrassed with me? " She dragged me to her shop. I sat on a small bench and watched her busy making tea for me.
She brought me a cup of hot tea. I seem to see her smiling face in the thick fog again. Take a sip, and a warm current seems to rush from your toes to your head. The fragrant tea lingers between my lips and teeth. Suddenly, a feeling of moving rose in my heart, as if being warmed by an unspeakable emotion. I think it's aunt's true feelings, just like this warm cup of tea.
That real feeling is ordinary, not as hot as fire, but as warm as this cup of tea, which is enough.
I seem to hear something ticking. I think it's probably the sound of my heart melting.
After lunch, the sun goes down and the cool wind rises gradually. People in my hometown are used to walking around in the fields to see the growth of crops and silently look forward to a bumper harvest in a year. People call this kind of walking "psychic field", which is a pleasant and pleasant process. Farmers slowly touch rice or beans and wheat with their eyes, just like staring at their own children. Their gentle eyes are full of love, and their smiles are like a flower, slowly blooming on a weather-beaten face. This is an involuntary, heartfelt smile. Many times, even the farmers themselves are not aware of this smile. Gaze is a silent communication. Silent telling is more than talking, and crops feel the expectations of farmers, swaying gently in the evening breeze, accumulating strength and thriving.
The scene of "jumping fields" often brings my thoughts back to campus time. As a farmer's child, I work in the fields with my parents all the year round. Although I only undertake some light work, I am deeply touched by the hardships of making a living. "Who knows that every meal is hard" is not only the knowledge in the text, but also the cognition rooted in the blood. When I was a child, my parents often taught me a proverb: people coax the ground, and the fields coax the stomach. This means that if you are lazy in farming, you will eventually suffer. I brought this proverb to campus life. At the beginning of school, I made a wish to jump out of the agricultural gate through study, and I didn't dare to slack off my studies. The school curriculum is tight, especially in senior high school, and the pressure of further study is great, so self-study at night is common. When I was studying by myself last night, my classmates were all immersed in their own problems. The classroom was as quiet as a field before the autumn harvest. The slight sound of turning over the book and the rustling of the pen tip on the paper made the atmosphere dignified and tense. Teachers on duty for self-study sometimes correct their homework at desks and sometimes walk gently in the aisles. More than once, when I was tired of doing homework, I looked up from a mountain of homework books. If I happen to meet my teacher's eyes, he will smile at me with strong encouragement and expectation-those eyes are more like parents looking at their crops and their growing children.
The way China people express their feelings is affectionate and implicit. Mothers bid farewell to their children and send a message with clothes thread, "She sewed carefully and repaired it thoroughly, fearing that the delay would make him go home late"; Travelers who travel far away write letters to their families, which say, "Let's talk about food, but let's talk about looks." A wife misses her husband far away. In the bitter autumn moon, she washed his clothes again and again. She always believes that her husband can perceive her thoughts and "try his best to listen to the empty voice"; Li Bai bid farewell to Meng Haoran at the Yellow Crane Tower. His friend's sailboat disappeared into the blue sky. Li Bai is still isolated from the river and has been staring at the mighty river for a long time. "Sailing alone in the sky, only the Yangtze River flows in the sky" ...
With the passage of time and the growth of age, I have a deeper feeling about the dispersion of life, and my heart is becoming softer with the growing tenacity. One evening, when the sun was setting, the red light stung people's eyes when they bid farewell to their friends who had traveled far away. After saying goodbye, we turned around on a hillside and walked out of a section of the road. I looked back at my friend, who happened to be looking at me. A farewell poem by Chen Zuocai suddenly occurred to my mind: "An De's long rope is tied to the sky, sending you across the mountains." Tears of disappointment welled up in my eyes instantly.
When parents treat their children, they always use their own understanding of life and society to water them without reservation. Therefore, the different parenting concepts of China parents and foreign parents are essentially the embodiment of different cultural psychology and outlook on life. Although there are differences between Chinese and western cultures, they reach the same goal by different routes and promote people's growth from different angles.
The world is full of knowledge and the cultivation of human feelings is an article. China culture has always attached importance to interpersonal relationships and emotions, so parents in China want their children to feel their love when they help them up.
China culture is created when people communicate with each other. Confucianism should respond to China's entry into the WTO and aspire to help and govern the world with benevolent people all over the world; The doctrine of the mean is smooth, in order to get peace and friendship between people and me; A gentleman is a harmonious but different image; A Dream of Red Mansions, the pinnacle of China literature, is a masterpiece with four families as the background and mixed feelings, but with proper operation. Among them, Baochai is more popular than Daiyu, which is rooted in China people's psychological recognition and pursuit of the importance of getting along with others, giving love to the world and attaching importance to others. Therefore, the concept of parenting under the subtle influence of China culture instills rich feelings for others in children, making them respect and attach importance to the strength of others.
Riding the dust, screaming, and going straight to the point are the heroes. Western culture pays more attention to personal value, and independence is a hero. When a child falls, western parents are far-sighted and turn a deaf ear to crying, hoping that the child can support himself and cultivate the spirit of independence.
The west's admiration for the spirit of independence is reflected in its literature and film works. In Don Quixote, a lonely last-time knight is depicted. What he did seems absurd, but it embodies an independent spirit, a spirit of conquering the world rather than integrating into it. At present, many hero movies end with the hero saving the world himself.
Therefore, the concept of parenting in western culture has cultivated children's self-confidence in self-ability and the spirit of solving difficulties independently. Chinese and western cultures seem to be opposite, but in fact they are unified. As long as you don't go to any extremes, children can grow up healthily and happily; Their outlook on life and values can also agree with each other. The spirit of independence in the west is not "picking up all the cold branches and refusing to live, and the lonely sandbar is cold", but always emphasizes cooperation and team spirit; China's life spirit is not to rely on others, but to be harmonious but different, gentle and not guilty of independence.
Beijing flavor, such as diversion, is homologous to the East China Sea. Only when Chinese and western cultures blend reasonably and moderately, and all roads lead to the same goal, can we live a better life and warm the world.