Stuttering boy
As soon as Lan Qiao went to primary school, his parents went to Guangzhou to work, and his grandmother took care of Lan-Qiao and his younger brother and sister. Lan Qiao was born with a little Lickitung. Without parents' companionship and instruction, children have a playful nature. When young Lan-Qiao watched TV, she learned to imitate the stuttering ghost feet in Huang Feihong and The Thirteenth Aunt, and it gradually became a habit. She always stutters and is often laughed at.
Such childhood and adolescence are doomed to inferiority. Lan-Qiao's character has become more and more introverted, and he is no longer willing to talk to others. Lan-Qiao complained about his parents whom he hadn't seen for years.
Accompanied by his uncle, Lan-Qiao and his sister went to their parents' work unit and saw their parents living in a small single room filled with empty mineral water bottles. Lan-Qiao felt that it was not easy for his parents, but also strengthened his determination to enter the university.
I want to change myself.
When he first went to college, like most of his classmates, he repeated eating, sleeping and attending classes all day, leading a muddled life because he was afraid that he would be laughed at by others. At that time, he didn't want to communicate with classmates in the class and dormitory, and he didn't dare to run for class cadres and join some institutions and societies in the school, and he didn't know where the future direction was.
But the living conditions of his parents have always reminded the young man that he began to think about how to change his own destiny and his parents' lives. "If you want to change, start a business and make friends, you must communicate with others, so I decided to start with the problem of speaking and must get rid of stuttering." Lan-Qiao didn't communicate much with his parents because he seldom met, but this time, Lan-Qiao opened his heart to his parents for the first time and told them his inner pain caused by stuttering. After getting the parents' understanding, Lan-Qiao entered the Internet cafe, searched for "stuttering correction" on the Internet and found a stuttering correction institution. 2010165438+1October 4th, five days of corrective training cost 3980 yuan, and Lan-Qiao confidently set foot on the train to change himself.
A week's training didn't change Lan-Qiao's stuttering, but the voice training program on the bus increased his self-confidence, and he was no longer as afraid of communicating with others as before. "It should be said that this training has opened my mind." At that time, more than 30 people participated in the training from different places, and he knew that he was not the only one who was troubled by stuttering. Five days with Lan-Qiao is the oldest 56-year-old in the training class. He had to learn and change at that age, which deeply touched Lan-Qiao and strengthened his confidence in change.
The training class failed to correct stuttering. "I will insist on changing myself." After returning to school, Lan-Qiao got up before 7 o'clock every day, stood by the river in front of the dormitory, and practiced the methods of self-suggestion, breathing style and reading rhythm taught during training over and over again. At first, after school at noon, he would repeat the exercises. He began to take the initiative to look for opportunities to exercise on stage and participated in a speech contest sponsored by the school eloquence and communication association. At that time, he didn't want to get a ranking, but just wanted to increase the opportunity to exercise on the stage. He used Li Yang's words to describe his mood at that time. "After being nervous, it is a sense of accomplishment!" .
On 20 1 1, 12, Youku uploaded the video of "Lan-Qiao and Chen Jian Lecture" by Blue Bridge in the lecture hall of the school library. The topic of the speech is "Love and Gratitude", which tells the story of a left-behind child from dissatisfaction with his parents to watching his parents leave their hometown and live a hard life, just to support their families. The protagonist of the story is Lan-Qiao himself. The speech touched the audience, and everyone was moved by his life and his persistence. This is his first official speech, and it is also a touching speech that he has been trying to stick to for a year.
English talent
Practice English by correcting stuttering. Lan-Qiao said that although there is no breakthrough, it has been on the road of persistence.
20 1 1 May, the voice of wisdom entered the school. Many people are reading English with a wise voice. He still insists on reading Chinese books, practicing oral English and correcting stuttering. His idea is simple: "I can't speak well, nor can I speak English well." Say yes before learning English. "
Starting from 201114, he decided to learn English from scratch and get up at 6 o'clock every day to practice English loudly behind the administration building. Lan-Qiao's reading style also influenced some people, and some students began to get up early and read in the morning.
In the last semester of my sophomore year, Su Ying English Training Institute came to the school to give a lecture. The cost of attending the training for seven days was 1980 yuan. At that time, he wanted to sign up, but he was not as impulsive as when he was a freshman. "I believe that training can learn something, but now it is more clear that these 1000 parents have to work hard for one month."
He didn't go to training, but he worked harder and harder. Rancho learned from his friends who participated in the training and practiced by himself at the lake. His progress and efforts are also seen by others.
"The most important thing in learning English is listening. If you listen more, you will speak. We should create an English environment for our life. " Now the minimum standard for him to listen to English articles is 100 times until he memorizes them. Lan-Qiao takes a repeater with him every day. There are words and English essays in the repeater. Lan-Qiao requires himself to communicate with foreigners within one year. For this goal, he has been insisting.
. Seeing the change of Lan-Qiao, his roommates all admired him. Some people even said that they should learn more from him. He is also very happy to hear this. He believes, "I am very happy to be able to influence some people because I have helped others.
At the end of the interview, he also told reporters that he would open a stuttering correction class himself during the summer vacation to help more people. Lan-Qiao said seriously, "I don't charge them tuition, I just want to help them.
"I have always believed that persistence can create miracles, and no difficulty can compare with the power of persistence. Simplify complex things and repeat simple things. I have been on the road, I have been working hard, persevering, persevering, and constantly moving towards my dream! " Lan-Qiao said firmly.
(Text/Yang Jie)
Postscript: Having worked in Amway direct sales, listened to joe girard's speech, visited some special education schools and met some corporate executives, Lan-Qiao's ideal has become even bigger. "To be a respected entrepreneur and philanthropist, to make China's economy stronger, to be an emissary of spreading love and gratitude, and to make the world full of love, these will be the things I pursue all my life. What I am doing now is to lay the foundation for this. " Adversity did not kill the young man's spirit, but made him more determined to advance towards his dream. Love and gratitude will go hand in hand, and Lan-Qiao's tomorrow will be full of sunshine.
"Hello, my name is Lan-Qiao, and I am a college student of Chengdu University ..." Yesterday afternoon, a young man in a red T-shirt gave a loud speech in front of the passengers on the No.80 bus. He spoke clearly and clearly, and his speech was cadenced, which won the applause of the passengers. Who knew that this young man was a stutterer who never dared to speak in front of strangers a year and a half ago? It used to be a famous "roaring brother" in Chengdu and a famous "inspirational brother" in Chengdu.
Go to college for your parents.
To change my stuttering.
When I was a child, Lan-Qiao liked the role of Ghost Feet in Huang Feihong and often stuttered like him. Unexpectedly, I gradually became a stutterer and was teased by many people. My parents are even worried that Lan-Qiao will not find a wife in the future. After being sensible, Rancho became extremely inferior and gave up on himself in his study and life. After the senior high school entrance examination in 2007, when he came to his parents' workplace and saw them living in a dark, humid and messy space, Lan-Qiao made up his mind that he must go to college for his parents.
On 20 10, Lan-Qiao got his wish and was admitted to the animation major of Fine Arts College of Chengdu University. However, Lan-Qiao was not happy and excited that year. Because he stuttered badly, he dared not communicate with others, and no one shared his success with him. Therefore, Lan-Qiao decided that the first task of entering the university was to correct his stuttering.
Go through the difficult road of correction
He became a "growling brother"
Just entered the university for more than two months, Lan-Qiao hardly communicates with outsiders, and sometimes he can't say a word with his classmates in the dormitory one day. 20 10, 1 1 year 10, he came to Taizhou, Zhejiang province alone and attended a stuttering correction training class. More than 30 people in the class are troubled by stuttering. "I feel that I am not alone for the first time." Lan-Qiao said generously that although the training didn't change his stuttering at all, Lan-Qiao found confidence he had never had before. "As long as you believe in yourself, are not afraid of losing face and dare to speak, you will succeed."
After returning to school, Lan-Qiao took the initiative to talk with his classmates. The first thing he does when he gets up every morning is to say to himself loudly in the mirror, "Lan-Qiao, you are the best!" " "I am a brave, confident and happy person!" ..... Then, practice deep breathing and reading aloud by the lake of Ji Ming in front of the dormitory. He insisted on taking part in the school speech contest despite a lot of dirty eyes. Some people laughed at him as a "roaring brother", but Lan-Qiao did not waver. He firmly believes that "losing face today is success tomorrow".
One day at noon in the canteen, Lan-Qiao suddenly stood on the dining stool and gave a loud speech, which startled the students in the canteen. One night, he was reading by the lake, and the couple by the lake finally left; Practice hitting on strangers. A girl thinks that Lan-Qiao is up to something, then turns around and leaves at a glance ... But it is because of this persistence that by the end of her freshman year, Lan-Qiao was fluent in Chinese reading and could communicate like a normal person.
Run a stuttering correction institution in summer.
Now he is an "inspirational brother"
20111Just one year after attending the stuttering correction training class, Lan Qiaocai began to read English for the first time. Lan-Qiao had to start with the pronunciation of 26 letters because he owed too many "study accounts" in middle school. If you don't have the money to go to an English training institution, you can find a classmate profile, download audio online, and practice letters and phonetic symbols loudly at the back of the administrative building at 6 o'clock every day. After a long time, his behavior has brought positive influence to the students in the dormitory: slowly, everyone stopped sleeping in, put down the game and insisted on reading with Lan-Qiao in the morning. Lan-Qiao is very proud. "His behavior actually helped other students."
Today, Lan-Qiao not only stops stuttering, but also speaks fluent English. Lan-Qiao said that 65,438+0% people in China suffer from stuttering, and free stuttering correction training courses were held to help more stutterers get out of trouble.
Chengdu Evening News trainee reporter Deng Jing's photo report