If I work hard to raise my child, but when I grow up, I find that he behaves like a baiwenhang, I will reflect on myself first and not blame the godfather. As parents, we bear an important responsibility to shape children's character and values. However, even if we try our best to provide the best education and guidance, children's behaviors and attitudes will be influenced by other factors, such as friends, social environment and personal choices.

Example is the cornerstone.

Parents' values, behavior and education will have a far-reaching impact on their children. What we say and do is the cornerstone of shaping a child's character. Therefore, if I find that I have worked hard to raise a child, but he shows bad behavior and attitude, I will first reflect on my educational methods and behavior.

Open dialogue to solve problems

Honest dialogue with children is the key to solving problems. I will try my best to understand his inner world and thoughts and listen to his views and puzzles. Through mutual communication, I can better understand the motivation behind his behavior and provide him with correct guidance and suggestions.

Seek professional help

In addition to self-reflection and communication, I will also seek other ways to help children correct bad behavior. This may include seeking professional psychological counseling or family counseling. Professionals can provide more in-depth analysis and suggestions to help me and my children find solutions to problems.

The influence of social environment and personal choice

However, we should also realize that children's behavior is not only the result of parents' education. Social environment, peer relationship and personal choice will also have an impact on them. Although we can provide children with correct values and education, they still have to face their own choices and decisions in the end.

Stay calm and rational.

Faced with such a situation, as parents, we should remain calm and rational. Have enough courage and patience to continue to establish contact and communication with children. It is important not to give up hope and believe that children can change and grow. At the same time, we should also pay attention to our own growth and progress, constantly improve our educational ability, set an example for our children, and hope that our children will eventually become virtuous people.

Provide the best education and guidance.

In the process of raising children, we must realize the complexity and variability of education. Although we can't completely control children's choices and behaviors, we can try our best to provide the best education and guidance and establish good relations with them. In this way, no matter what kind of people they become, we can face them calmly and know that we have tried our best and have no regrets.