First, how to prevent school bullying
1 student
(1) Dress as basic as possible, not too high-profile, and don't wear strange clothes.
(2) Don't tease more overbearing and tough companions, and don't take the initiative to conflict with classmates at school. Once it happens, find a teacher to solve it in time.
(3) When going to and from school and activities, try to go hand in hand. When a person goes out to play with classmates, don't go to secluded and sparsely populated places, don't go home after dark, don't play on the way after school, and go home on time.
(4) Putting a name on the articles for study and daily use brought to school helps to prove that these articles belong to you, and may even play a role in preventing infringement.
(5) If bullying is only verbal or online, ignore the hitter. Sometimes the attacker will lose interest if he doesn't get a response or the bullied person won't be scared by it, and things will pass.
(6) If the situation continues to let the child bravely tell the aggressor how he feels about others and ask him to stop his rude behavior, some aggressors will be restrained in the face of challenges and stop their wrong behavior.
(7) In the face of bullying, you can loudly warn the other party that what you have done is illegal and disciplinary, and you will be severely punished by legal discipline and pay the due price for it. If the other party continues to bully, it should defend itself properly, not endure being beaten. The principle of self-defense is not to fight violence with violence, but to play a deterrent role and tell each other that we are not weak.
(8) If you meet school bullying, you must be calm, adopt circuitous tactics and delay the time as much as possible. When you are threatened in public, you should call for help from passers-by to avoid some trouble. Personal safety is always the first, don't provoke each other.
2. school.
(1) Carry out special education through various forms.
For example, giving a speech under the national flag, telling students what the dangers of school bullying and school bullying are, and telling students how to prevent emergency response measures in school bullying and school bullying; Strengthen publicity and education and home-school contact through "home-school communication platform"; Special lectures invite police stations, judicial offices, courts or legal advisers to come to the school to give special lectures, conduct publicity and education, and let students know the harm and consequences of school bullying; Organize the teaching and administrative staff to concentrate on the relevant policies, measures and methods for preventing and handling the school bullying incident.
(2) Improve relevant rules and regulations.
Formulate the implementation plan in time to guide the publicity and education in school bullying and the emergency response in school bullying; The Political and Educational Affairs Department formulated the emergency response plan for school bullying in time, clarified the responsibilities of relevant departments and personnel in handling school bullying, strengthened the sense of responsibility, ensured that "whoever is on duty is responsible" and "who is responsible first", and put an end to prevarication, indifference and even laissez-faire. Do a good job in emergency handling and reporting. In case of emergency, isolate and evacuate at the first time to prevent further expansion and deterioration of the situation. If there is personal injury, first rescue the staff and then report according to the situation.
(3) Strengthen prevention and nip in the bud.
Strengthen administrative duty and campus patrol, patrol and inspect important time and places (playground, canteen, campus supermarket, dormitory building and teaching building), and make relevant records. Add high-definition surveillance cameras in some important places and replace existing non-high-definition cameras in order to monitor dangerous situations in time.
(4) Strengthen school supervision and inspection, and report the problems to the Security Office and the Student Affairs Office in time.
Supervise dormitory management personnel to strengthen dormitory management and patrol, and increase patrol frequency. At the same time, the personnel on duty in the monitoring center are required to be serious and responsible, and the school administrators are required to strengthen contact and communication with dormitory management, patrol security and administrative personnel on duty through campus monitoring.
(5) Ask the class teacher to strengthen communication and contact with the parents of students.
Use communication to find problems, remind them in time, and educate them together. Announce the school's "school bullying" help phone number to students.
(6) Timely handling education and punishment.
For the school bullying incident that has happened, the Political and Educational Affairs Office should promptly investigate and deal with it according to the relevant regulations on student status management. Suspected of illegal crimes, the school or bullied students and their guardians report to the public security department and cooperate with the investigation.
3. Parents
(1) First of all, parents should give their children a good family environment, and quarrels between parents should not maintain a warm family in front of their children.
(2) Give the child a character exercise that is not wronged but flexible and rigid. Cultivate children's truth, goodness and beauty from an early age, but also have the ability to face setbacks bravely. It doesn't matter if a child is different from others in some way. Let children understand this as soon as possible, and children will form a solid sense of self-worth and agree that they feel that they are equally worthy of respect.
(3) Parents should pay more attention to their children, don't neglect them, actively encourage them, communicate with them when they have problems, become friends with them, talk to each other when they have worries, and keep abreast of their psychological emotions.
(4) Let children participate in self-defense training. Parents may not want their children to take physical revenge on their aggressors, but it is always good for them to be able to protect themselves once the situation worsens. These trainings can also greatly improve a child's self-esteem and reduce the possibility of being bullied.
(5) It is necessary for parents to remain calm after the incident and tell their children's teachers, directors or principals what happened. It is up to the children to choose whether to tell the school or the parents to tell the school, and to teach the children to use legal weapons to safeguard their rights and interests in the face of serious bullying.
(6) Parents of violent children should clearly tell their children that you can't tolerate such behavior and never accept the reason that children are "just playing". Arrange an effective non-violent punishment for children. Strengthen the control of children's activities, spend more time with children, and formulate norms for children. Cooperate with the school to correct the child's aggressive behavior and keep in touch with the school teacher. Do not use violence in front of children.
4. At the national level
The Guiding Opinions on Prevention and Control of Bullying and Violence among Primary and Secondary School Students points out that students who persist in teaching and repeatedly commit bullying and violence should be registered and recorded in the comprehensive quality evaluation of students, and transferred to special schools if necessary; Students who constitute illegal crimes shall be dealt with according to relevant laws and regulations, and their parents or guardians shall be ordered to strictly discipline them according to different situations. When necessary, it can be taken in for reeducation by the government, or given corresponding administrative and criminal penalties. In particular, those criminals with bad nature and circumstances, cruel means and serious consequences must be resolutely punished according to law. Say "no" to school bullying!
Second, the classification of school bullying
According to the severity of school bullying and violence, it can be divided into infringement, illegal behavior and criminal offence.
School bullying and those who are suspected of committing crimes with violence to a certain extent can be charged with a number of specific crimes, such as intentional injury, affray, affray, etc. When handling a case, the procuratorial organ shall, according to the facts of the case, including the subjective intention, objective behavior, circumstances and harmful consequences of the perpetrator, determine whether school bullying and violence constitute a crime and what kind of crime they constitute.
legal ground
Law of People's Republic of China (PRC) on the Protection of Minors (revised in 2020)
Thirty-ninth schools should establish a system for the prevention and control of student bullying, and carry out education and training on the prevention and control of student bullying for faculty and students.
Schools should immediately stop bullying students, and notify the parents or other guardians of bullying and bullied underage students to participate in the identification and handling of bullying; Give timely psychological counseling, education and guidance to relevant minor students; Give necessary family education guidance to the parents or other guardians of relevant minor students.
For underage students who commit bullying, schools should strengthen discipline according to the nature and degree of bullying. For serious bullying, the school shall not conceal it, but shall report it to the public security organ and the education administrative department in time, and cooperate with the relevant departments to deal with it according to law.
Article 77 No organization or individual may insult, slander, threaten or maliciously damage the image of minors through the Internet in the form of words, pictures, audio and video.
Parents or other guardians of minors who have been subjected to cyber bullying have the right to inform network service providers to take measures such as deleting, blocking and disconnecting links. After receiving the notice, the network service provider shall take necessary measures in time to stop cyber bullying and prevent the spread of information.