It is said that parents should respect their children. What is the meaning of respect?

All along, parents take good care of their children, care about whether they eat well or not, dress warmly or not, and always try their best to raise them, but they don't "respect" him.

Why?

My parents always said, "I have worked hard to feed, clothe and study for you." If you are not willing to eat or wear, why can't you listen! "

Parents have children, protect him and love him. Although this is the responsibility of parents, it is enough to prove their selfless love. However, this kind of love does not mean "respect". People respect each other because they are equal and willing to listen to each other's opinions.

From this perspective, parents are not aware of the meaning of "respect", and always think that children are attached to their parents and never regard children as an independent individual. Based on this mentality, parents take it for granted that their children's cognition and knowledge are much weaker than their own, so they don't want to listen or listen to what their children say. Even if the child expressed something, it was directly denied by the parents.

Respect means that parents put their minds on their children, treat them as an independent individual, and are willing to listen to what their children say and share their experiences. When parent-child interaction is friendly and coordinated, there will be a connection between parents and children, and family education will become more effective.