A few days ago, Xin Wei took the children to a friend's house. Because we haven't seen each other for a long time, we also had a good chat.
For the above scenes, I believe many parents have encountered it, and it is not enough for adults to chat for one day. It not only disturbs the communication between adults, but also makes others think that children are impolite and embarrassed parents.
Why do children like to interrupt?
In fact, every child who likes to interrupt has a behavioral motive behind him. Generally speaking, "interruption" is a situation that basically happens to children of a certain age. Therefore, parents should not rush to blame their children, but first look at why the children interrupted your conversation.
1, instinct behavior
Many children just regard this behavior as an interruption in daily conversation. They may just be interested in what adults are saying now, or they may suddenly remember what to say to their parents.
2. Speaking of places that children are interested in.
When children see or hear their parents talking about things they are interested in, they can't help but want to express their opinions. Moreover, children don't know what to say and what not to say on any occasion, which often interrupts the conversation between parents.
I am eager to express my opinion.
What adults say will resonate with children if they have heard it or are a little confused, and then they want to express themselves and express their views, hoping that their performance will be recognized and affirmed by their parents.
The child didn't realize that it was impolite to interrupt.
If parents have the habit of interrupting, children will learn. This influence is not deliberate, but profound. In addition, parents' lack of restraint on children's behavior expression will also make children realize that interrupting is a rude behavior.
These are the reasons why children love to interrupt. So parents should pay attention to how to deal with this kind of behavior.
So, what should children do if they love to interrupt, and how can they get rid of their habit of interrupting? The following are the suggestions and methods of the wise lighthouse parenting tutor. Let's have a look.
1, how to get rid of the problem of children interrupting: you can make an agreement with your child and express a secret signal.
We should tell our children that it is impolite to interrupt others at will. But if the child insists on talking, we can make an agreement with the child at this time.
For example, raise your hand to indicate that you want to speak. The existence of the secret code, on the one hand, is to let the child know that mom and dad understand his mood; On the other hand, it can also cultivate children's good habit of learning to wait.
2. How to get rid of the problem of children interrupting: give children room to express themselves.
In fact, many children love to interrupt because parents don't communicate effectively with their children in daily life, so that children don't know how to express their ideas correctly.
Therefore, parents should communicate with their children in daily life and encourage them to express their emotions correctly. In this way, children will not express their ideas by interrupting.
3. How to get rid of the problem of children interrupting: Parents set an example?
Many children's behavior comes from imitating their parents. Some parents may have a bad habit of interrupting themselves in their lives, but it is difficult to get results just by asking their children to correct them.
Therefore, parents should set an example and pay attention to polite education when communicating with others. Children can naturally get rid of the bad habit of interrupting through observation.
4. How to get rid of the problem of children interrupting: positive reinforcement and encouraging waiting.
When children really have opinions to express, we can tell them, baby, if you want to express your opinions, we can wait for others to finish.
After we finish, parents remember to set aside time for their children, listen carefully, and affirm their behavior of waiting before speaking, so as to actively strengthen their speech etiquette.
What if the child likes to interrupt? In the process of children's growth, there will always be problems of one kind or another. We should not wear adult colored glasses to belittle these behaviors of children, but help children to correct them step by step with love and patience.
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