For a child who always does a simple thing wrong and makes mistakes repeatedly, the reasons are complicated and need specific analysis. There may be reasons such as children's stage or habits, parents' ways and means. The questioner's statement is not very comprehensive, but it doesn't matter, let's come together:

First, the child's perspective:

① stage

When we do teacher training, this question is an important test point. Everyone's talent level is different, and it is also reflected in different places. Some children have a strong understanding and learn things quickly, and he can quickly find the cause of the mistake and correct it. Some children can't understand and do it because their growth and development are relatively slow and they can't reach the above situation. But this does not mean that there is something wrong with the child's IQ, but it has not yet reached this stage. This is caused by physiology and can only be guided with a little patience. It's no use worrying.

So how do you judge whether the child's stage is low? Observe the child's state after each mistake, and the child's state after you criticize him or take some measures. For example, I once had a student, a girl in the first grade of primary school, with weak acceptance. She forgot the same knowledge point in less than ten seconds, over and over again ... and she always smiles at you (not intentionally smirking), is obedient and writes carefully. I just can't do the content of repeated reminders. It may take several days to digest a small part. This situation shows that it is not a problem of serious lack of effort, but a problem of understanding, which is caused by stages. Afterwards, I learned from her grandfather that this classmate's mother was born prematurely.

② Habit

When students reach the first grade, except for a few students who are still in the lower stage, most of them may be habitual problems if they have such minor problems as pencils, erasers and rulers. How to solve this problem? In fact, it is very simple: every night before the children go to bed, parents only need to entrust a sentence: "Have you brought all the pencils?" Is it sharpened? Did you put the eraser and ruler in your schoolbag? Are the exercise books and textbooks ready? ... "Wait, this series of topics may not take up half a minute of parents' time. If we can persist for a few weeks, this kind of problem should not appear again. Because he has formed a habit. Similarly, this habit is good for parents themselves and their children when they grow up, so as to avoid leaving their mobile phones and keys behind when they go out.

All of the above are ideas, but also depends on the specific situation. The same is true below.

Second, the perspective of parents:

① Ways and means:

There is no certain way, because it depends on the child's own situation. If the child is young and at a lower stage, it is useless for parents to beat and scold. In this case, it is good to remind more, without being reasonable; If the children are older, they can do well in other aspects, but when there are certain problems in some places, it may be a matter of habit or intention. Better be reasonable. If you can't, since it's a trivial matter, try not to beat and scold. You can make some simple restrictions, such as: don't brush your teeth at night, don't buy snacks this month, or don't watch an cartoon the next day, don't go out to play once (something that children like), or force yourself to form a habit, such as brushing your teeth every night and after meals, until you are aware of brushing your teeth (Koreans brush their teeth every meal, which is a good habit). Of course, the premise is that parents should do this habit first, and everyone will be convinced if they supervise their children.

Because I don't know much about your child's specific situation, I can only express it here. These are the contents of the general direction, but also according to the children themselves. I wish you an early success!

"How many times have I taught you this? Why can't you?" "I have told you many times, why can't you remember?" Parents, do these words sound familiar? It is true that children always make mistakes in some things, which many parents cannot accept and understand. Why do children make mistakes repeatedly after a simple thing has been said and taught so many times?

For example, a child always misspells the word "duo". From grade one to grade three, teachers and parents have said this word many times, which of course makes many parents unable to understand. How common and easy it is to write the word "Duo", and why is it "incorrigible after repeated instruction"? Maybe before, we were all accusing blindly. This is a child's problem. However, we should have some new views on children's failure to correct this reaction.

1. Communication is invalid.

First of all, if parents and children say it so many times, children still write typos, which shows that the correct communication method of "duo" between parents and children is invalid.

2. The interaction is invalid

Although the parents tried to teach the child many times, the child was unable to learn the word, and the parents did not help him. Therefore, when a child makes mistakes many times, it may be because his parents have not taught him the ability and methods to learn this word correctly, or they have not taught him correctly. If the channels between parents and children can't communicate with each other, even if parents teach them many times, the children won't accept them.

If parents can accept this view, they may be less angry, anxious and helpless about children's repeated mistakes. In fact, for children who repeatedly make mistakes, what they need is definitely not the lessons and beatings of their parents, but the help and guidance of their parents.

Think about how many "neglected parents" in life usually ignore their children's feelings and needs, and such children who refuse to turn over a new leaf, make repeated mistakes or deliberately provoke may be the children who need the most sense of security, belonging and care.

Seek power

Myth: I feel a sense of belonging only if I have the final say. At least you can't give me orders.

If parents feel irritated, challenged, threatened or defeated, the belief behind children's behavior is to seek power.

Perhaps parents usually give their children too few choices and decisions, and everything is arranged and decided for their children. Children are like "farmers" oppressed by "landlords" for a long time. On the day of the uprising, parents' orders were invalid for their children.

Step 3 take revenge

Wrong idea: I can't belong, but at least I can hurt you.

If parents' feelings are hurt, disappointed, unbelievable and full of hatred, then the belief behind children's behavior is revenge.

Give up yourself

Wrong idea: it is impossible to belong. I gave up.

If parents feel desperate and helpless, the belief behind children's behavior is to give up on themselves.

This kind of child doesn't believe that he can belong, and thinks that he can't do anything well and it's useless to work hard. This shows that the child is extremely unconfident.

At this time, parents need to express their trust and recognition for their children and stop criticizing them. Find the child's bright spot from the child's progress bit by bit and give encouragement. Help children, teach them skills, demonstrate how to do it, and gradually build their self-confidence.

You know, every child wants to get things done. Nobody wants to make mistakes all the time. It is not terrible for children to make mistakes. It is most important for parents to find out the reasons behind the "wrong" behavior!

The above is my answer to the child's "repeated mistakes", hoping to help you.

Children always make some simple mistakes, and what if they make mistakes again and again? Is there a problem with education? Hello, I'm Han Ming's mother's dream girl. I'm glad to answer this question.

First of all, we have to rule out the IQ problem. Modern medicine, science and technology and living standards have all been greatly improved. In principle, there should be few or no such problems.

Let's focus on analyzing children with normal intelligence. The cause of similar problems.

2 Every time there is a similar situation, do parents have timely and patient education to explain the truth, so that children can clearly understand and consciously tame, and resolutely not do it next time?

What is the language of parents' preaching? Tone? Are you kind and firm, and have you controlled your emotions? Let the children accept their parents' persuasion.

4 Don't use verbal violence, so as not to cause children's rebellious tendencies. The more you talk, the less you listen. You know it's wrong, so I have to do it. I will do the opposite of what you said.

Teach students in accordance with their aptitude, appreciate education, and don't be bad reviewers: for example, obedient girls who are similar to good girls can be educated directly. However, if there is the possibility of rebellion, we should use a strategy similar to circuitous. For example, my son's handwriting is always small and crowded. I have said it bluntly for countless times, but there is still no way, only another way. Son, your handwriting is very good. Although the actual writing is not beautiful. ) The words are quite small and exquisite. It's ok if it's a girl, but for a boy, a man should be generous and indomitable. It's like the words should be close to the upper line and the lower line should be posted on the lower line ... Generally speaking, when he says this, he will definitely write a lot. You can take the opportunity to praise: this is very good and very atmospheric. This one in the back is ok. More atmospheric, better looking. Every time I see him write big, I will praise him for his kindness. Try to ignore the small ones and praise the well-written ones every time. Slowly, he will forget his meaning and be patient many times. Keep moving in the right direction. Encourage and appreciate more.

Pay attention to the art of speaking: the same meaning can be expressed in another way. For example, the reading voice is too small, let alone too small. You can change the way of "Come on, louder, louder is perfect" to avoid small words and deepen the big impression.

These are my personal thoughts and my solutions to similar problems for children. Welcome to discuss with you, thank you.

The devil is yourself.

Everyone is talking about children's problems, but parents just don't say they have problems.

Where do children's problems come from?

Who gave it to him? Is it natural?

All children's faults are mostly parents' problems. We should first ask ourselves what went wrong, and then think that it is our problems that make children so important.

Our parents are adults, and many people who work in the company refuse to change their teaching, have poor self-control ability and often make mistakes.

So think about whether your behavior is harmful to children.

Don't always look at the children, look at the demon himself first, just as the children said to me: you think it's simple, I think it's difficult, you just look at the problem from your point of view.

With a baby at home, I can deeply understand your experience, such as doing homework, often being careless, but always making mistakes when you can write clearly. I often teach him for more than ten times and make the same mistake again, so I beat him with a stick to see if he will have a long memory, but I found that after playing, he was much better and more careless than before. This is not a problem of parents or education, but a problem of children's brains, which depend on genes. When everyone is born, whether he can become a talented person depends on his brain. Education the day after tomorrow is very important. But it is also inseparable from innate genes. This is why, when studying in junior high school, the same teachers, the same students and the same teaching methods. What? Some people get good grades, why some people get poor grades, and why some people are not serious in class? Do you still play the same after class? But his grades are very good. But why do some people work hard? But the grades are not good either. What does this mean? A person's brain can only think so much. A person's wisdom is limited. Talking about everything depends on innate genes, and excellent innate genes can bring a good foundation to children. Therefore, not everyone is a genius, everything depends on parents' genes.

Hello! Read your question and talk about my point of view.

Children always make some simple things wrong and make mistakes again and again.

Although I don't know how old your child is now, in what way do you make mistakes repeatedly? However, we should clearly know that children will be slow to learn things. I have told them many times, but they still can't remember, and they will make mistakes, which is normal. Educating children requires patience, not a sense of urgency.

It is also related to heredity. Some children learn fast, while others learn slowly. This will not have a great impact on the future, isn't there a saying? Diligence can make up for mistakes, so even a little stupid child will become a talent through a good education. Educating children requires patience, not a sense of urgency.

Sometimes a child makes mistakes repeatedly, but he doesn't really realize what he is doing is wrong. We can give some examples, or tell him a story, so that he can really realize his mistakes, which will be better than preaching and criticizing.

On the issue of education

Family education is greater than school education.

Children spend most of their time with their parents before school, which is a critical period for their psychological, character and personality formation. Childhood trauma and early childhood experiences, which are often said in psychology, were formed during this period. The problems in this period have a great influence on future life, work, career and family. Therefore, we should attach great importance to the education and influence of this period on children.

The newborn child is a small sapling, which grows straight and crooked, not by ourselves, but by how our parents cultivate it.

Influence on children from childhood

1 parental influence. Parents' words and deeds will exert a subtle influence on their children. Parents should set an example. They can't watch mobile phones and TV by themselves, but let their children read and study. In this way, children will have rebellious psychology. Why can I watch TV there and ask me to study? Take time out to study with your children and set a good example for them with your own behavior.

Don't criticize and blame children, which will easily make them rebellious. Learn to get along with children like friends and learn to communicate on an equal footing.

Don't beat and scold children, which will make them feel insecure when they grow up. Children are for love and care. Some parents always think that it is very effective for children to make mistakes and do wrong things. However, it is not clear whether this practice will lead children to be timid, afraid of making mistakes, afraid of being scolded and beaten, and timid in doing things. If they live in a world of tension and fear for a long time, how much impact will it have on his future.

Don't say anything demeaning to children.

Like, why are you so stupid? Look who's so smart.

I can't learn any of these questions. What did you learn at school?

Just like you, what will you do when you enter the society?

Wait, if there is a lot of negative energy, it will deeply hurt children's hearts, make them feel inferior and think that I am incompetent and worthless. Long-term psychological influence is one of the reasons for many depression.

Children's family education is very important. I hope parents pay attention. Don't wait until the child grows up, and his personality, personality and psychology have taken shape and are deeply rooted. It is not so easy to correct it.

The above is my opinion, I hope it will help you.

Children always make some repeated mistakes and do some simple things wrong. This is normal. Don't care too much.

Children have their own growth and their own growth methods. In the process, they may keep making mistakes. They will learn from their mistakes and grow step by step.

What our parents have to do is to accompany, remind, supervise and check, and don't worry too much.

If it is not an intellectual problem, then it may be that your education has the following problems.

When children make mistakes, parents can't get used to it and can't correct it in time. You have to tell him that he did something wrong and must correct it. He can't do it again. Let children learn to bear the consequences of making mistakes. Of course, this consequence is not the abuse of parents. Tell the child what he did wrong, tell him clearly that it was wrong, and let him realize the seriousness of the matter.

Many times, parents tend to be soft-hearted, afraid that their children will be wronged and clean up the mess themselves. For example, the child broke his own handle and criticized it, saying that he knew it was wrong. Parents are afraid of his scratches and help him clean up. In this way, he will think that he has done something wrong, and his parents are around, which has nothing to do with himself, not a long memory. Therefore, under the premise of taking protective measures, let him clean up the scene together and leave a deep impression on the children.

Children are actually very sensitive. Parents should not get angry easily and break into a furious rage. You can calm down, calmly express your views and reason, so that children can listen more even if they make mistakes.

The guard thinks so. Children always make simple mistakes and repeat them. The problem is not entirely with children.

It is said that parents are the best enlightenment teachers for children, and parents have a certain guiding role in children's life education.

There is no choice in what kind of living environment children grow up in. At this time, if parents can't grow up at the same frequency as their children, then naturally parents will feel that they are children, love to do wrong things, and always do wrong things repeatedly.

In fact, adults and children have their own hobbies, and everyone has their own independent hobbies. Often children's practices conflict with those of adults, and this' mistake' naturally arises. The growth of children needs a good teacher, but also a good bole, doesn't it?

These are the opinions of the doorman. Please comment below. Thank you!

Hello, I'm your brother. I'm glad to answer your question. What if children often make mistakes on simple questions? I think we should find out the reason why the child made a mistake first. I think it might be:

1. Children can't correctly distinguish what is wrong and what is right.

2. Parents lack patience, companionship and communication.

3. Parents' education methods are really inappropriate.

How to deal with it?

1. Parents should take more part in parent-child activities, seize the opportunity to communicate with their children and educate them in practice.

2. Correct the mistakes in time when the children make mistakes, especially the places that are easy to make mistakes, and let the children write them down.

3. Parents should be good at controlling their emotions and avoid losing control of their emotions. Too strict education is counterproductive.

3. Encourage children and communicate with them in an equal manner, which will help children grow and change.