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Why don't parents use irony when educating their children?
Why don't parents use irony when educating their children? In normal life, many parents often say sarcastic words to their children because of anger or other reasons. Parents think that this way can let their children know their mistakes and correct their behavior. But in fact, for younger children, they simply cannot understand the irony of adults. If parents let them watch TV all day, they will take it seriously and regard it as a good thing. Education experts believe that irony is an educational art when educating children, and irony will have bad educational consequences for children.

What's the harm of irony? It will make children not understand what their parents mean. It is not easy for ordinary children to understand another meaning of their parents according to their tone and expression. If parents often tell their children irony, it will make it difficult for them to distinguish what is wrong and what is right in their personal behavior. As time goes by, it will directly affect their unconsciousness.

Cynicism with children will make children have no trust in their parents, because they think it is really difficult to tell whether what adults say is a lie or not, and then it is difficult to believe what parents say.

It will damage the child's self-esteem. If some parents love their children, they will probably say that you are a little villain, you naughty child, you little fool. This kind of address was originally used by parents to be close to their children, but for children, they may misinterpret it, thinking that parents are accusing him and denying him, thinking that parents don't like him very much.

Children don't get along well with other children. For children, imitation is their nature. Children will tell other children what they have heard from their parents. For example, children will say that other children are fools and bad people, and other children will be very angry in the future. Or you can't express yourself effectively, and your speech is very confusing. In this way, your children will become more and more introverted and irritable, and even other children will make your children independent.

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