Children are the future of the motherland, and it is every parent's wish to make children become talents. In the process of educating children, I believe that every parent has accumulated some experience, and educating children well is our common goal. Here, I would like to share with you some thoughts and experiences in the process of educating children and discuss ways to educate children together.

Every child has his strong points. My child, Hu, has achieved excellent results and made great progress in all aspects during his study in school for nearly two years. Thanks to the teacher's hard cultivation, thanks to the students' help and good influence. In children's family education, we think it is very important to encourage children, guide their interests and cultivate their persistent good study habits.

1. Encourage children and guide their interest in learning.

Learning is a hard work, but also an interesting thing. My child's intelligence is very average, and sometimes he will listen to some negative language, such as: it's so difficult, I can't learn, I won't participate, I can't do well, and others will laugh at me. We told him many stories about the growth of celebrities and asked him what he wanted to be when he grew up. He said: When an archaeologist or explorer wants to see the pyramids in Egypt and go to Disneyland in the United States, we tell him that archaeologists and explorers need a lot of knowledge. Chinese and mathematics are the foundation. What if you don't know the language when you go abroad? So he felt that he had to study to realize his wish. At the same time, in the process of learning, we try to apply the content of learning to life and games, which makes him feel a lot of fun. Every time he makes progress, we will praise him: good performance! Great progress!

What a great idea! Great imagination! You can be your parents' teacher! Wait, make him happy and have a sense of accomplishment. If you don't do well enough, I will encourage him to say: I believe I will do better next time.

Respect and guide children's interests, and constantly encourage children. When children have interest and confidence, it will become easy to learn anything.

2. Actively cooperate with schools to cultivate children's good study habits.

According to the relevant requirements of the school and the arrangement of the school, we should also do a good job in children's moral, intellectual and physical education. It is very reasonable for the school to require parents to sign every day. This is an effective way to supervise and understand children and an interactive platform to contact schools and families. Parents can keep abreast of school arrangements, learning contents, learning progress, children's performance in school, and what they have done well and what they have not done well. Therefore, in addition to busy work and occasional business trips, we will strictly urge and assist children to complete their homework, carefully check their completion, help children to check for leaks and fill vacancies, and explain to him what they don't understand, so that he can strengthen the correction of mistakes. Share the teacher's praise with your child and tell him to make persistent efforts; Analyze the reasons for poor grades with your child and tell him why it is not good and what to do in the future.

Playfulness is a child's nature, which requires supervision and guidance, so that children can develop good study habits such as strictly observing school rules and regulations, paying attention to lectures in class, reviewing carefully after class, finishing homework seriously, thinking independently, asking questions diligently and mastering what they have learned firmly.

I am very glad to share with you the usual methods of guiding children to learn by themselves. Primary school is the initial stage of children's lifelong learning. Obviously, this period is particularly important. This is a process of knowledge from scratch and from existence to gradual expansion. Many people know that children are curious and want to ask why. At this time, I think the most important thing is to cultivate children's interest in figuring out the problem process. Children's questions and doubts can be answered with interesting metaphors or stories, and those that are unclear can be delayed, for example, let me think about it or check the information. Don't answer questions I don't know easily, and don't bother, because it will interrupt children's interest and make them disheartened. Over time, children want to know, don't want to ask more, and are afraid of being rejected. Children's interest in thinking out problems is cultivated, and you will feel that it is easy for parents to face their children's learning, because it is followed by their initiative in learning.

Good study habits are also an important aspect of autonomous learning. Learning without rules and clues will make you passive. Therefore, I usually pay great attention to my children's study habits and gradually guide them to arrange their time reasonably, such as reciting before breakfast, doing homework after breakfast or before dinner, and reading books before going to bed. The children are very cooperative, which makes my guidance very effective. Now he hasn't finished his homework. Occasionally, when his mother asks him to have a good meal before continuing to cook, he will let us wait for him for a while. I also think it makes sense. Stopping suddenly in the middle of thinking about a composition and a topic is definitely not conducive to future study. Children have a naughty side, and sometimes homework will be delayed because they want to play. I will smile at an appropriate time to remind them that once he is found to watch TV or play computer games occasionally, he will never tolerate it, and confession is negotiable.

Guiding children to think before encountering some problems is another aspect of my son's education. The best result is that he tells the answer himself or finishes it himself. When he does something wrong, I will ask him why he did it. What is the reason? what do you think? I will never scold him. On the contrary, I will praise him and tell him the correct way of thinking. If you always answer your children's questions directly, on the surface, it will help them learn knowledge and relax, but in my opinion, it is not necessarily a good thing for every child. After a long time, some children will become dependent, refuse to use their brains, and ask people when they encounter problems, which is very unfavorable for cultivating children's love of thinking.

Children's learning is a joint effort of many parties. To tell the truth, I am also very helpless and unprofessional in guiding children to learn some subjects. There is an idiom that getting twice the result with half the effort is good, and good methods will make children's learning easier. This also requires me to consult my children's teachers and parents with excellent experience. Let's work together to cultivate the next generation of qualified talents!

Parenting problem experience II

Three years ago, I took my daughter by the hand and hobbled into the gate of Guangxin Kindergarten. Everything in front of me is so strange and novel to my daughter! Only the teacher's affable smiling face made her feel warm and familiar. In a blink of an eye, my daughter's three-year kindergarten time will pass. In these three years, I feel that my daughter has grown up, learned a lot and understood a lot, and I have grown a lot in these three years. In fact, I have no purpose for my daughter's education. I think it's good to let her grow up happily and healthily. The following is my little experience to discuss with you.

First of all, I don't love and protect my daughter excessively. I think everything is subject to the child's requirements and everything is done for him. Children don't have to do anything, and it's easy to become self-centered, willful, dependent and don't know how to take care of themselves. I don't think such a child can adapt to society in the future. I always ask my daughter to do what she can. From childhood to now, she basically eats by herself, wears clothes and shoes, folds quilts by herself, and consciously washes her face and brushes her teeth every day. I think, in this case, there will be no problem to stand on your own feet when you grow up.

Secondly, look at her daughter's behavior with appreciation. I won't be too picky about what my daughter does, and I won't talk about her shortcomings. As long as she has a little success, I will encourage her and praise her. In this way, she won't become timid and confident in everything. The more specific the praise, the easier it is for the daughter to understand what good behavior is and find the right direction to work hard. China people are modest, don't praise their children in front of others, and sometimes criticize her casually. In fact, our evaluation of children is the basis for him to establish his self-image. If you often mention your own shortcomings, children will doubt their abilities, which will not only affect their self-confidence, but even determine that they are useless and less enterprising. Many parents have high expectations for their children, but they are stingy with their praise. In fact, appreciation can bring good results to education.

Also, I will not be harsh or overly autocratic when I treat my daughter. Regularly regulating children's actions in an authoritative tone, restricting his freedom and denying his ideas will make children in a state of panic for a long time, unable to express themselves, and only know that they are passive and unhappy in Nuo Nuo; And make her feel insecure, face things at a loss and lose the courage to try new things. Children can't feel our serious love, and putting on a stern face will only make her flinch from you. My daughter and I are at home, and I often talk to her in a gentle tone. What I usually ask her to do is "Li Xinyi, let's read a book together" and "Li Xinyi, let's do some exercise?" "Li Xinyi, help mom fold clothes together?" Often at this time, the daughter will readily agree.

When she wants to do something, I will always support her. Although she will mess up the paint and make a lot of paper balls, it doesn't matter. She will let me clean with her. At this time, I will be happy to help her and keep a pleasant atmosphere at home.

The last rule is not to be indifferent to children. My daughter is at home. If I have time, I will always casually ask what the kindergarten ate, what skills I learned in class, and care about some trivial matters of the kindergarten. Often at this time, my daughter will be very talkative and will definitely think that my mother cares about her. I am a very happy child.

In short, children are growing, parents are growing, and children's education is a question for universities. These are just my immature experiences, and there is a longer and more difficult road to education in the future. I hope parents can grow up with their children, come on!

Experience in parenting issues 3

In this casual day, Junzhe has changed from a baby who once babbled to a "little adult" who is now eloquent. With the growth of age, self-awareness and independent awareness have increased, and they are no longer the baby who only knows how to cry before. Sometimes he will seize the shortcomings of adults and put forward his own opinions, or question the judgment of adults.

In the face of this "little adult", we should pay attention to what kind of education we will bring to our children. As teachers and parents, I have accumulated some parenting experience in recent years. Let me talk about my own parenting experience in recent years.

First, trust children.

Five-year-old children have their own opinions and ideas, and they are more willing to do things by themselves. At this time, parents should encourage their children, instead of blindly doing it for their children because they feel that their children are not doing well or are in danger. In fact, it takes a process to learn to do one thing. If children are not allowed to do and try, they will never learn. Parents only need to help or guide or demonstrate in advance when their children ask you.

Second, understand children and respect their hobbies.

Every child has something he likes. Junzhe likes three things: car models, puzzles and listening to stories. These are his personal hobbies and interests. These not only give him emotional sustenance, but also give him a sense of security, and these hobbies can help him learn and create in the process of his growth. Therefore, it is very important to respect and cultivate children's hobbies. What a child likes and dislikes is a child's right. Parents should conform to nature, pay attention to guidance, and let hobbies become mentors and friends on their children's road to success.

Third, encourage children.

Zheng Zhe doesn't have enough courage to try many things. At home, he depends on us to do everything for him How can we do this? My family tried to encourage him many times. He usually likes puzzles at home, but he always does it.

Let the adults watch it by themselves, so we encourage him to say, "If you fight with your father, you must fight faster than your father." After listening to this sentence, he will spell it quickly. Now we can say that he is the fastest speller in our family. Being good at praise and encouragement has enhanced his self-confidence.

Fourth, cooperate with school education.

The goal of school education and family education is the same, which is to make children grow up healthily and happily. Only the ways and means of education are different. Teachers in the school need to face dozens of children, while several people in our family only need to educate one, so we have the obligation to cooperate with the school and educate together. Without family education, how pale and powerless school education will be! If parents can't control their children, how can they respect teachers and obey management? When we send our children to kindergartens in Cai Wei, we should trust teachers and cooperate with schools. If the teacher is the same, the parents are the same, and the child doesn't know who to listen to, then his heart will be full of contradictions and pains. I insist on communicating with teachers at least twice a week, and communicate with teachers more often to reach a consensus, so as to better educate children. Therefore, since the children went to kindergarten, we have been keeping pace with teachers, cooperating with schools and educating together.

The above is just my personal superficial experience in educating children. I believe that my parents and friends must have better parenting methods than me. Now is the only child era. In terms of educating children, due to the differences in family environment, different educational methods have emerged. But I believe that as long as Qi Xin works together, Qi Xin educates and cooperates with kindergarten teachers, the children will be successful and brilliant.

Experience in parenting issues 4

I have read a book called "The Revolution of Learning", which contains a passage: "Seize the most crucial years: from birth to eight years old. In fact, many parents will not care about this stage and let them waste their time at this time. In fact, boys and girls can reach 50% of the intelligence measured at the age of 17 before the age of 4, and then develop 30% between the ages of 4 and 8, and the last 20% will be completed between the ages of 8 and 17. When this critical period is completed, it can lead to the success of future learning. " So how can we educate our children well? I think parents should not only have a good parenting attitude, but also pay attention to parenting methods. Let me talk about my own experience in educating my daughter:

1 As parents, we must first adjust our mentality and clearly understand the child's personality characteristics, advantages and disadvantages. In the face of children's education, we should have a stable mood and a healthy mood. Even if you are tired after a day's work, you can't have emotions in front of your children.

2 Cultivate children's interest in reading. Parents can choose some stories, riddles, crossword puzzles and so on. Vivid and interesting, can attract children. Read him stories before going to bed every day, and gradually develop the habit of listening to stories before going to bed. Learning anything is fun, as long as it is a game.

3. Develop thinking and develop in many ways. Children's interests are varied and constantly changing. According to this characteristic of children, we should develop their intelligence reasonably, broaden their thinking and let them learn as much as possible. At the same time, parents should adapt to this feature in the process of children's development, supplement and absorb all aspects of knowledge in time, and answer children's questions. I think it is very important that parents should take part in children's activities more. Children's job is to play. Children learn from everything they do.

Experience in parenting issues 5

Nowadays, most children are only children, and parents have a desire to "hope their children succeed and their daughters succeed". My family likes it very much, for fear of losing it in my hand and putting it in my mouth. But children are becoming more and more difficult to manage, and it is not good to use soft or hard. I believe many parents have the same experience.

Share my own experience with you:

First, let children develop good habits, habits determine their fate, and good habits can make a child's life.

1, there is no need to force children to learn a lot of knowledge, such as how many words they can write and how much math and English they can know, which will lead to the consequences of not listening carefully in the future. At present, the most important thing is to cultivate good habits and attention (such as being polite, packing up your school supplies, giving him a small alarm clock, sleeping on time every day and so on). ).

2. Parents should try not to do all the things that children can do by themselves, and let children do more by themselves, which is conducive to children's mental growth. Let children form a good habit of doing things by themselves from an early age.

We should use our own practical actions to influence children. For example, when children are studying (reading, painting, puzzles, etc. If parents have time, they should spend more time with their children. When children are studying, parents can read books beside them, which can affect their habit of loving learning.

Second, let children learn to discover the advantages of others and learn the ability to communicate with others. Being able to discover the advantages of others can help children learn a lot from others. Learning to communicate with others can enable children to actively communicate with teachers or others when they encounter difficulties and need help, so as to improve themselves and help themselves more effectively.

Third, let children learn to love their parents and others.

Love can be passed on to each other, and love needs to be said. I love your father, I love your mother, I love your green grass, I love your red flowers, just like songs on the tree of knowledge, from loving your family to loving your friends, nature and society. What a good outlook on life! A life full of love must be happy.

Fourth, let children learn to adapt to the environment and enhance their ability to adapt to the environment.

1, help children develop friendship

2. Take a natural attitude towards children's friends.

3. Give children the opportunity to create games.

Fifth, encourage children and help them build self-confidence.

Good boy likes to brag. Encourage children in peacetime and help them build their self-confidence. Lu Qin, the author of Tell Your Children, You Are Great, has a good viewpoint and practice in cultivating children. If you have the chance, please learn from them.

It is impossible to educate children overnight. I haven't done enough in educating children. I have to keep studying and strive to improve my self-cultivation. I hope I can make progress with my children!