1. Tell your child a story about your childhood. Children like listening to stories. Dad tells interesting and meaningful things about himself. Children are more interested and will remember deeply. Maybe they will tell others when they go out. Let him know that adults grow up so slowly.
2. Encourage praise more and scare less. It is normal for children to do a lot of things badly. Dad should encourage them more. He can't be furious because the floor is dirty and his clothes are dirty. But tell him in the right way.
3. Make friends with children. It is inevitable that children will be naughty. As a father, he may be more irritable, and some may scare his children. If they don't ... I won't give it to you ... it's not good for communication with children. You should be gentle, talk to her as a friend and become a bosom friend. Children are willing to share their hearts with you.
4. Travel alone with children and participate in activities. This is more useful if the mother usually goes out to attend any parent-teacher conference and is away from home. Dad can rely on dad better when he is alone with his children. It turns out that the father is as gentle and considerate as the mother, and the father can do what the mother can do, which is conducive to the improvement of children's trust in the father and the cultivation of tacit understanding between the two.
5. empathy. Understand the child's feelings, empathize with his situation and make him feel that his father understands him. What is the reason for his performance?