Strengthen family education and the construction of parents' schools, and guide parents to solve various problems encountered in the process of educating their children. Parents are now organized to watch the special program "Family Education Seminar for Primary and Secondary School Students" broadcast by China Education Television (CETV 1). Parents are welcome to watch it on time. The following is my feedback (8 articles) on family education lectures for your reference!
Family Education Thinking Lecture 1 Creating a Harmonious and Happy Family Atmosphere Parents should set an example.
Children grow up in the family, just like a small tree growing in nature. A good natural environment is conducive to the growth and rapid growth of trees. Similarly, a good family environment and atmosphere will promote the healthy and happy growth of children. Parents' warm smiles shine on young trees like golden sunshine, and parents' love moistens the hearts of young trees and children like continuous drizzle. With plenty of sunshine and rain, how can this young tree not thrive? Therefore, I attach great importance to the construction of family cultural atmosphere, and pay attention to the creation of learning families, such as: children study independently, study with children, and strive to create a good learning environment for children.
As the saying goes, "those who are near the ink are black, and those who are near the ink are black." Obviously, family environment plays a positive role in children's growth. Therefore, as parents, it is not only the responsibility of parents, but also the hope and future of children. First, parents should not speak uncivilized language, gossip or complain frequently in front of their children; The second is to pass on happy and relaxed emotions to children, so that children can learn to be tolerant, generous and easy-going; Third, parents should push their children according to their personality and guide them to develop in a good direction. They can neither make children lose their individuality, restrict their development, nor let themselves go. Every child has some hobbies and advantages. As parents, we should be good at tapping children's potential and give full play to and develop these hobbies and advantages.
People often say that "parents are children's first teachers", but in fact they are children's "lifelong teachers". We should not only do a good job of material security for children, but also be their solid spiritual backing. In junior high school, when children enter adolescence, their thoughts are relatively simple, and there will be some phenomena such as "rebellious psychology" and "obsession". In addition, after the learning task becomes heavier, the opportunities for children to communicate with their parents decrease, so parents should consciously and often take time out to communicate with their children.
For example, on the way to pick up the children and at the dinner table, there are opportunities for communication and conversation. Parents and children open their hearts to each other and share their work and study during the day. In the long run, children will take the initiative to tell us their concerns. Sometimes I think it is difficult for children to accept the teacher's criticism at the moment, and they can't accept it verbally. I will take the time to "listen" to the child's "story", help to do some exploratory analysis, affirm some of his views in time, point out his problems in time, guide him step by step, and avoid unwarranted accusations. Sometimes parents' approving eyes and sincere praise are stones to increase children's self-confidence and a compass for children's growth.
Like most parents, I used to be afraid of losing at the starting line. I took the initiative to go to the bookstore to buy a lot of extracurricular questions for my children, only to find that the children were unwilling or had no time to do them. When you enter junior high school, you really need to supplement a certain amount of extracurricular independent exercises, but how can you let your children take the initiative to do the questions? Parents can recommend and compare the teacher after class, look through his wrong book, try to extract some similar wrong questions and classic questions for their children, and ask the children if these can help them better understand the textbook knowledge and expand it. After getting a positive answer, tell him the source of these questions and let him go to the bookstore himself. Nowadays, children's extracurricular exercises are purchased by themselves. After finishing their homework every day, they will do exercises at the same time, which can also play a role in reviewing and consolidating in time after class.
Of course, good study and living habits cannot be developed overnight. He is inseparable from the fertile soil of the school, the hard cultivation of teachers and the dribs and drabs of family education. As long as we are patient, persistent and determined, I believe every child can shine.
Reflections on Family Education Lecture 4 "Home is the warmest harbor." Creating a harmonious and democratic family atmosphere and providing a habitat for children to breathe freely in body and mind is the basic guarantee of good family education.
When entering middle school, adolescent children are a little mature and rebellious, with increasing independence and self-awareness, and have very clear views and attitudes towards everything around them. In the face of growing confusion, as parents, we should tell our children at the first time: parents will always be her strongest support, giving them confidence and courage to overcome setbacks; Take the initiative to approach the child and put yourself in the child's shoes, so as to open your heart, really go deep into his heart and accurately grasp the direction of thinking; Analyze and discuss problems with children in a targeted manner and discuss strategies to solve problems; Help to make a step-by-step feasibility plan and urge its implementation. Only by kissing his "teacher" can he believe his way. Therefore, parents should strive to become teachers, friends and confidants in their children's growth and truly share joys and sorrows.
Reflections on Family Education Lecture 5: "A peaceful mind is a good medicine for treating diseases." The pressure of studying in middle school is increasing day by day, so parents need to adjust themselves, set an example for their children and temper their peace of mind; Help children relieve stress, gradually shorten the adaptation process, and then move on easily. Therefore, we should be supporters of positive forces, not anxiety makers.
We should not only listen to children's voices patiently, but also become "companions" of wisdom. In the content shared by children, they can keenly capture effective information and respond immediately; We should consciously guide the topic, skillfully "input" the educational content, and let the education come naturally in a subtle way. Especially in adolescence, parents must avoid simple and rude beatings and blunt and forced preaching.
How to help children improve their academic performance when entering middle school? First of all, we should face up to children's cognitive level and real learning ability and abandon unrealistic learning expectations; Secondly, according to the requirements of teachers in various subjects, formulate reasonable and appropriate learning objectives and contents, implement them step by step as planned, guide children to preview and review independently in a down-to-earth manner, and learn to check and fill gaps. In this way, we can get the joy of growth in the progress day by day.
Comments on Family Education Lecture VI "Concentricity is a powerful force." In the ever-changing times, today's middle school students are no longer "big children" in the traditional sense. They have their own way of thinking independently and have their own unique views on problems. As parents, while cultivating children's extensive reading habits, they should set an example and read a lot of excellent books to enrich their knowledge and improve their comprehensive quality. Have more common topics and hobbies with children, and strive to be "healthy and like-minded" children.
Empower yourself, cultivate children's eternal diligence and enterprising spirit through words and deeds, and never stop. On the road of accompanying children to grow up, parents should constantly activate themselves, face the future and pursue new heights in life.
To be an "important person" in a child's life, first of all, lies in the self-discipline of parents. Actively create a democratic, equal, warm and harmonious living and learning environment, so that children can be positive and sunny whenever and wherever.
Thank you very much for organizing everyone to study such a professional family education. I believe that many parents, like me, feel that children are not active and spontaneous in their studies, and they always need constant supervision from parents and teachers. Many times, I feel that learning seems to be a matter for teachers and parents.
Through learning, I understand how important it is for children to have the internal motivation to learn. Cultivating children to become growth-oriented thinking will benefit them for life. If children want to become growth-oriented thinking, parents must first become parents who are willing to learn and change for their children and grow into growth-oriented parents. People who are growing up will say: I am willing to try, I am willing to change, and I am willing to try hard when I encounter all problems.
Therefore, as a child's first teacher, we should not only pay attention to the child's achievements, but also pay attention to cultivating the child's integrity, self-discipline, seriousness and persistence in the character of not being afraid of difficulties. I believe that children who have developed these characteristics will have the ability to think and solve problems independently no matter what they encounter on the road of life. This is the educational result we really want.
After studying the Family Education Promotion Law, I realized more deeply that children's education is the most important thing for a strong motherland!
First of all, as parents, we have the obligation to guide our children to establish and improve a correct outlook on life, world outlook and values. For children, they will have more and better platforms to study hard and grow up well. Maybe every child has different talents. We can't just ask children to strive for better grades in their studies. At the same time, we should also pay attention to the development of children's physical and mental health. Only by all-round development can she become a useful person and make her own contribution to the development of the country. Secondly, for me, I will have more and better channels to learn, how to educate children and how to accompany them.
Finally, the country spends so much manpower and material resources to promote family education, which also shows that the country attaches importance to the next generation. A strong teenager makes a strong country, and a wise teenager makes a strong country. Now that the state and government are escorting us, we also have better resources to educate our children and help them grow up healthily and sturdily.