In the usual communication with parents, I found that many parents now regard meeting their children's material needs as a sign of loving their children. They usually don't spend much time with their children. Children spend most of their time with their grandparents. They pick them up at school and after school, and spend holidays with their grandparents at home. Parents are busy at work, under great pressure, busy making money, and neglecting their children's company. They think it is enough for children to be taken care of by grandparents, and parents will do the same occasionally. Grandparents are not clear about their children's growth and change. After a long time, children will feel insecure, lack trust, be withdrawn, don't know how to communicate with other children, hide everything in their hearts, and become timid, sensitive and not brave enough.

Second, ignore the influence of parent-child companionship on children.

Childhood is an important stage of children's physical and mental development. Parental companionship plays an important role in the healthy development of children's body and mind. The companionship of parents is related to the healthy development of children's mental health. If parents neglect their parents' company for a long time, children will feel insecure, independent, dependent, unconfident and weak in communication skills. Children who lack parents' accompanying education, because of lack of parents' attention and care, are emotionally rich and fragile, prone to deviation in understanding and value, and abnormal personality and psychological development. In the long run, it will easily lead to the emotional loss of children, children will not feel love, and children may lose their instinct for love, which will be a terrible thing.

Some parents rely too much on the education of schools and teachers. If children have problems, they should look for schools and teachers, instead of finding reasons from themselves and not paying attention to the significance of companionship. If children develop bad behavior habits, it is difficult to help them correct them by relying on the strength of teachers. Habits can't be formed overnight, especially for young children, who need constant guidance from people around them and have a subtle positive influence on children through words and deeds.

Third, companionship helps children develop good habits.

The children's first teacher is their parents, and their family is their first school. Parents play an indispensable role in children's growth. Educator Mr. Chen Heqin also said: "Nine times out of ten, human behavior is habit, and most of it is formed in childhood. Special attention should be paid to the cultivation of childhood habits, which will benefit you for life; If you don't form a good habit, you will suffer for life. Parents are the creators of family environment and the first teachers of children, but these are all based on the process of parents accompanying their children to grow up. If parents don't actively participate in the process of children's growth, how can they help children develop good behavior habits and develop a positive personality? 3 ~ 6 years old is an important stage of children's physical and mental development. Children are highly imitative and easily influenced by the outside world. At this time, parents' companionship with children can help children develop good behavior habits. Parents can also find and correct children's bad living habits and behavior habits in time while accompanying their children to grow up.

Fourth, good companionship is the best love for children.

Children are brought into this world by parents, and parents have the responsibility and obligation to raise their children well. "Nurturing" is not only to give children material care and bring them up, but also to be divided into: nurturing and education. Parents should not only raise their children to grow up healthily, but also accompany their children to educate them well. Children need their parents' company, especially when they are young. A child is like a blank sheet of paper. They draw whatever color you give them. Parents give their children enough love, children learn to love and be loved, and they also have the ability to learn other things, which lays a good foundation for their later growth. Although parents can't decide every step of life for their children, they can be their beacons and guide them in the right direction.

Good parent-child companionship can help children grow up better. Although some parents have time to spend with their children, they just stay with them, do their own things with them, show them cartoons, and use their mobile phones to work or play games. Although they accompany their children, they have no time to listen to their voices and don't know what they really need. The lack of interaction and communication between parents and children will greatly hinder the emotional communication between parents and children. In the long run, it will be difficult for children to communicate with their parents and establish a good parent-child relationship. Once the parent-child relationship is destroyed, parents will get twice the result with half the effort if they want to educate their children later. Parent-child relationship is the earliest and most important interpersonal relationship in a person's life, and it is the premise and foundation for children to form good interpersonal relationships with others. Parents can establish a close relationship with their children through good companionship and fatherly love. In the process of accompanying children to grow up, parents are the objects that children talk to and the role models for children to learn. Children will often tell you about the big and small things they find, interesting, wronged and their own mistakes. When you praise his progress and criticize his mistakes, children will feel their parents' attention and concern for him. Parents' high-quality companionship is not only to play with their children, but also to get to know each other, make progress and grow together. When a child has problems on the road to growth, timely and effective communication is the best companion for the child.