1, parents only pay attention to their current grades.
In the learning stage, children's grades are everything, and they don't pay much attention to hobbies, but they don't know how important hobbies are in society and work. Education is just a stepping stone. Besides studying, there are many places in family education that need children's special attention, such as living habits, personality and behavior habits, which are often ignored by parents.
I think preschool class is very important.
Some parents' self-righteous educational ideas often don't pay attention to objectivity. The preschool system is well taught, but children's interests are easily overlooked. Even some children are forced to study, and preschool classes make children have school phobia.
Both parents want to go to a good school.
When parents choose schools for their children, they all want their children to enter schools with better teaching quality, but in fact, according to the actual situation of their children's academic performance, there is an old saying that "it is better to be the head of a chicken than the tail of a phoenix", and the top ranking is superior, but in a good school, the lower ranking will cause psychological frustration to their children, so parents should think twice when choosing schools.
4. There are too many extracurricular classes.
In order to make their children's grades more outstanding, parents enroll their children in various cram schools. In addition to going to school, children have to go to cram schools after school, and there is almost no free time. The great pressure of study is a potential factor of weariness.
5. Let children learn through material incentives.
It is common for children to reward their children with money or toys after exams, but what is really useful to children is the consistency of parents' education for their children and a harmonious family education environment, which is more conducive to their study.
6. The relationship between parents' leisure time and children's grades
The proportion of children whose parents read books in their spare time is relatively high, while the proportion of children who watch mobile TV is slightly poor. Parents who like to get together with friends have less good grades, so parents should start from themselves if they want to have a good family education.
7. Father is absent from family education
In some families, the father is almost invisible at home, which leads to many children's lack of fatherly love in character and other aspects, which will lead to poor spirit and some bad behavior habits.
Parents don't know their children at all.
Parents always love their children in their own way, but never listen to their own needs, which eventually leads to the formation of some bad habits or personalities.
9. Children's academic performance is influenced by their parents' education.
Positive education results in good grades, while wrong education results in worse grades.
10, there is no way to put the child in the right place.
A child's position in the family often affects his thoughts. If children occupy a special position in the family, they often have special ideas. Many parents regard their children as "little emperors" at home, and everything revolves around them. This love for children breeds the idea that "everything is centered on me and I am the only one".