Parents' family concept is the embodiment of family ethics, the core of family culture and the code of conduct for family members. Parents play a very important role in family education, so we should cultivate children's qualities such as filial piety, frugality and honesty. In the process of education, parents should adopt the education mode of "drip infiltration" in a democratic and equal way, so that children can learn the principle of doing things in a relaxed and happy mood.

Avoid rebellious psychology, so as to cultivate children's positive and optimistic mood and create a happy family atmosphere. Good family values are of great help to every member of the family, which can make children have a positive attitude in their hearts. When they encounter difficulties, what they think of is to find a solution by their own strength and establish correct values and world outlook.

2, diligent and dedicated, change ideas.

In today's society, the material living conditions on which most families depend for survival and development must be obtained through hard work. The diligence and dedication of parents will also affect children's views on society. To create a concept for children that what they pay will be rewarded, everything should be done according to their abilities. The establishment of this concept from an early age will affect children's views and practices on things in the future.

Cultivate your own things, do it yourself, and don't rely on others. All the rewards are the result of hard work. Children's personality reflects their parents' shadow, so parents should try their best to do their job well and treat their work with a positive attitude.

3. Make your home full of books.

As the saying goes, "Read thousands of books in a hundred miles", "Reading is like writing" and "The book has its own Yan Ruyu, and the book has its own golden house". Visible, the importance of books in life. As parents, we can borrow some books from the library after work as daily reading materials.

Children in the family environment will be influenced by the family atmosphere. If parents set an example and read more books and articles in daily life, children will also be influenced by their parents' behavior and find pleasure in reading. A positive family culture is the result of the joint efforts of parents and children. Parents, as their children's life mentors, have the obligation to guide their children to work hard and move in a more correct direction. ?

Adults should set an example and keep their homes clean and beautiful.

In addition to the pace of life, it is also important for adults to set an example at home and keep the home clean and beautiful.

In the family, parents are the children's first teachers. Children are imitating adults and learning from us from childhood to adolescence. If we always beat and scold our children, as long as the children are wronged, emotional and sick, the emotional response is crying. He doesn't know how to express his personal needs by means of communication, and even swings his fist.

Some parents like to warn their children in a threatening tone: "If you don't work hard, or cry again, you will know next time you go home!"

Children feel threatened instead of being taught, so they can't really teach children well.

Adults should be role models. What kind of people do we want our children to be in the future? We should realize what kind of people we will become. If you want your children to be neat and beautiful, you should also be a model.

You can't say that when you get home, you throw away your bag, coat and umbrella on the pretext of being tired. Whether at home or at school, everything should be in place, such as umbrellas, shoes, coats, pajamas, toys and so on. Everyone should have their own place.

When the children came home, everything was ready at home. When a child knows that it is a stable home, his emotions will not be mentioned. In a chaotic home, children will lose their sense of stability, and once so, they will easily make noise. Once the child is noisy, the parents' emotions are lured out. Finally, no one will believe that children can be raised without beating and cursing.

5. Adult mode is the best character education.

Littering children's toys is a headache for parents. Parents can let their children know the location of each toy and put different toys in each cupboard. Children clearly know that toys have to "go home" when they play well, and they also know where each toy's home is, which can naturally reduce a lot of confusion.

However, in too many families, adults don't set an example and do this part. There are kitchen things in the living room, kitchen things and bathrooms, and things that dissolve rooms and bedrooms. Things are everywhere.

There are many modern dual-income families, and many parents are too busy to take care of them. You can mess around if you want. However, the impact of such an environment on children should not be underestimated, and children will live in many "confused values."

Beating and cursing can't be done in a short time. The whole family culture will turn over and rebuild, and you will find it worthwhile to pay. Not beating or cursing doesn't mean letting the children go. We should be firm in principle and moderate in attitude. The law of life, the establishment of rhythm, take care of your home and living environment, and aesthetics will naturally enter. Adult role models are the best character education.