Many parents, after sending their children to school, will hold the idea that children's education is closely related to the guidance of teachers in the school, so as long as their children learn badly or regress, they will naturally attribute these faults to the teachers, and they will think that it is because the teachers' educational methods are improper and the teachers have neglected their children.
The teacher can't guarantee your child's good conduct. Character is the key to a person's good grades! Morality can make up for the defects of ability, but ability can hardly cover up the defects of morality. But the child's character is largely related to his tutor. Teachers are only preachers, and parents are the influencers of children's life. Parents' words and deeds are always greater than teachers' 45-minute classroom education. Therefore, in order to make children have good conduct, family education is the key, and teachers can do nothing! The growth of children is not a unilateral education, but a comprehensive education based on family education, which is different from school education and social education. These three aspects coordinate with each other and do their own duties, and the three parties do their own duties to do a good job in educating people reasonably. As parents, we should also conscientiously perform our family education duties, and don't push all the children's education to schools. Teachers should pay attention to guiding knowledge, and children should contact the society to ensure their all-round and healthy growth.
A good teacher may influence children for three to five years, but the influence of parents is lifelong! The child is not the teacher's, it's yours. Parents will always be their children's first teachers and their children's eternal role models. Please be a competent parent.
Hello! I am Xiao Yi Xiaomi's mother.
Take my home as an example. Before giving birth to a baby, my husband and I put everything on the table, sometimes we don't put our wallets and change together directly. It was so used to it that we didn't find a strange thing until the baby grew up in the first grade. By dinner time, the baby always can't eat when he changes his normal state, and his stomach is bulging. At that time, I was flustered and thought I had a strange disease.
Then ask the child, what's wrong? What's the matter with you? Why do you have no appetite to eat?
Don't ask, don't know, ask and get a fright. Every day before he goes home, he takes money to the shop next to the school to buy snacks and drinks.
The money was taken from the wallet we left at random. Then my husband and I "met" him seriously, omitting a thousand words.
Therefore, a person's life is so long. Being a man all one's life, good character and temperament are the principles that support our life. I think teaching children how to be a person with excellent personality is the most basic education. Therefore, the cultivation of this character is basically done by the family. Parents' words and deeds are seen by children and become the objects of imitation.
In the process of children's growth, many misunderstood things need to be corrected by parents in time.
Children education can be divided into knowledge and skills education, family education and social education. As for whether children's education should be given to teachers.
My answer is that you can't leave all your children's education to the teacher.
Secondly, teachers teach children knowledge teaching skills at school, and teachers are professional in this respect. In school, teachers can't do many things instead of parents because of their identity problems, and it is also a process for children to learn to think independently slowly.
Teach children the basic character of being a man, learn a skill, grow up, be honed by social education, and finally become an excellent person.
Poverty is the inheritance of the wind, me and my children, we learn in growth and grow in learning.
From the perspective of people's life development, educational growth is the most important thing! From the beginning of prenatal education to the birth of a child to about 3 years old, its intellectual development is very important, and the formation of children's good study habits in primary school, junior high school and senior high school requires the creation and edification of parents and other family members, especially the influence of parents' words and deeds. The role of role models is irreplaceable, which will have a far-reaching impact on the formation of children's good personality and the establishment of correct outlook on life and values. People often say that "parents are children's first teachers", which is the reason. Therefore, good family education is the basic project of children's education.
School education is an important way for children to acquire knowledge. Of course, this needs to be based on good habits and sound personality, so that school education can better "teach and solve doubts." School education is very important, that is, not only children but also adults should become talents. Therefore, as a teacher of school education, we should set an example and impart knowledge to children. At the same time, we should infect students with personality charm and influence students with the standard of "truth, goodness and beauty" As the saying goes, "it takes ten years to plant trees, but it takes a hundred years to cultivate people."
The growth of children needs the close cooperation of social education. Good social education is conducive to ideological and moral education for students, to increase their knowledge and develop their abilities, to enrich their spiritual life, to stimulate their interest and to cultivate their hobbies and specialties. Therefore, social education is a kind of life education, and its profundity, richness, independence and image are far from comparable to school education, and it is an indispensable part of the whole social education system.
The ancients said, "Three rescues a day." In the process of educating children, neither parents nor school teachers can impose their views on them. A better way is to guide children to sum up experience and learn lessons. Never ignore children's feelings, and don't always accuse children of saying "if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer", otherwise it will cause children's rebellious psychology. Therefore, it is very important to strengthen children's self-reflection education. The truth of "learning from mistakes" is very clear. Learn to sum up from the lessons and let yourself grow and develop.
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There are many aspects about children's education. In addition to cultural knowledge, there are also important things such as habit formation, character cultivation and the formation of three views. These are all important aspects of children's growth and are the long-term results of subtle influence. There are so many children in the class that it is obviously impossible for teachers to take care of all the children in an all-round way, and some of them are not teachers' obligations. As parents, of course, we should shoulder the primary responsibility, cooperate with teachers, educate our children together, and realize co-education in our homes.
Parents also play an important role in guiding their children to the society step by step. Parents play a major role in children's education, while teachers, schools and society all play an auxiliary or influential role. Parents pass the first pass, and the children will not be bad.
Parents are the best class teachers for children, so be sure to spend more time with them.
This is 100% wrong idea.
I also work in the off-campus education industry, and the courses belong to the middle and high-end courses. What is strange to parents here is that teachers educate their children well. I think this is a very strange idea, which is also the direct reason why children are not satisfactory.
Children live with their parents from birth, and family education is better than any other education. 0-6 years old is a critical period for children's self-construction, and parents' words and deeds affect their development.
Education is not omnipotent, nor are teachers omnipotent. Family education occupies a large part in children's education, especially in the years before children enter school.
It is a big mistake to leave children's education to teachers. There are many factors that affect children's development.
In the family environment, parent-child relationship, family atmosphere, parental rearing patterns, family structure and children's status in the family all have important influences on children's development.
Communication with peer groups enables children to explore interpersonal relationships and exchanges, develop interpersonal sensitivity, lay a foundation for children's future social interaction, and promote their social development. With the growth of age, the influence of peers is getting stronger and stronger, even surpassing parents to some extent.
People can educate themselves and reflect on themselves. If you do something wrong, sum up your experience in time and tell yourself that you will never do it again. This kind of education is internal education and has a positive impact on your own education.
People are not independent, people are people living in society. Cultural background, social system, social media and economic status have a profound impact on children's development.
This is an aspect that can never be ignored, but it is by no means the only aspect.
Good class spirit can promote students to form excellent qualities of enthusiasm, initiative, independence and self-discipline. The liveliness, interest and flexibility of the activities of the Communist Youth League and the Young Pioneers can easily make students form a curious, exploratory and cheerful character. In addition, teachers' different ways of discipline have great influence on children's development.
Anyway! Children's education is not only to teach teachers, but also to coordinate all aspects of influence.
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The viewpoint of experience and thinking-it is not correct to leave children's education to teachers.
In the process of children's growth, family, school and society all play an educational role. In the three aspects of family, school and society, it is the family that plays a decisive role, and further, it is the parents.
Children spend most of their time with their parents before they go to primary school. They grow up with the support and education of their parents. Education in this period is very important. Ordinary people have a saying: look at the old at the age of three, look at the old at the age of seven. In other words, children's living habits, personality characteristics and ideology have been basically formed before they go to primary school.
After entering primary school, teachers are mainly responsible for imparting knowledge, forming children's study habits, guiding their social communication ability and improving their ideological consciousness, mainly relying on parents' education, and teachers can only be regarded as assistants.
Entering junior high school, children's knowledge learning is more extensive and in-depth, mainly relying on teachers' teaching and children's ideological education, half by parents and half by teachers.
Entering the high school stage, children's knowledge learning depends entirely on teachers, and their ideology is gradually stereotyped. Parents almost give up the role of educating their children, and only occasionally exchange questions about study and future.
It can be said that in primary school, parents fully support their children's progress, in middle school, they are semi-assisted and semi-released, and in high school, they basically let go. This process is the process that children's study habits are gradually formed and their ideology (three views) is gradually established. In addition to teaching by example, parents also set an example. In this respect, the role of parents is far greater than that of teachers. Of course, in this process, children's knowledge learning, teachers are the main role, parents are the auxiliary role.
Therefore, it is wrong to leave children's education to teachers.