Nowadays, most parents are busy and hard at work. But in any case, I dare not lower my requirements for children. The high expectations for children depend on the strictness of schools and teachers and the complementarity of off-campus training. For example, my little nephew will go to the "learning and thinking" next door for an hour after school. The parents' idea is simple: the school will lay a solid foundation and raise the floors outside the school. Understand the reality of children and do what you can. Parents' requirements and expectations should be within the children's physical, mental and ability range. As long as it does not cause physical and mental harm to children. Physical and mental health is the most important capital for children to meet the future. Without it, everything is empty talk. Besides, in reality, parents should learn from the tragedy caused by unbearable schoolwork burden.

Parents should trust school education more. After all, school education is a formal national education based on respect for educational laws, and its normal teaching activities can fully meet the needs of children's growth. Don't be too superstitious about the hype of off-campus counseling institutions. Don't create an embarrassing situation that "teachers reduce their burdens in school and parents increase their burdens outside school". Parents should establish a correct concept of talent and career. Although today's society attaches great importance to diploma education, what really determines the success of a career is the quality and ability of children in all aspects. This is a social consensus, there is no need to talk about it.

Parents' desire for their children and daughters to prosper makes them feel more and more anxious and urgent. They dare not let their children slack off at all. Unfortunately, they think that the amount of homework is directly proportional to the quality of grades. Children can only get good grades if they bury themselves in their studies and constantly solve problems. So when the school proposed to reduce students' homework, parents were the first to stand out against it. They always ask their teachers with full anxiety. Why today? Some parents even bought a lot of exercises for their children to make up for the lack of school homework, forcing them to finish them. In their nervous state, children's schoolbags are getting heavier and heavier, and their waists are getting more and more bent. Therefore, educator Gu Mingyuan said, "The disease of education is a symptom of social disease."