Ensure fairness and justice. In fact, this view is a bit like a competition. In fact, in a family with many children, it is a bit like a competition. Children want their parents to care more about themselves and give them all their love. Therefore, if parents' education methods or ways of expressing love are wrong, it is likely that one of them will feel depressed and may feel unloved after a long time. Like Deshan in Please Answer 1988, her family education method actually has great disadvantages. When you are at home, you must pay attention to all the children, so parents must pay more attention to details.
Let the children learn from each other's strengths. This is actually equivalent to healthy competition. Many children will choose to compete for the love and attention of their parents. Smear? The other person, even after a long time, will have the habit of telling lies, so parents must praise the bright spots of different children and let them learn from each other. After a long time, it will naturally get better, instead of grabbing each other's eyes. Parents should also learn to guide their children to grow up together in activities, such as the boss studying well and the second child having developed motor nerves. Then urge them to help each other, so that they can improve themselves together and close family relationships.
Set an example. This is actually very important. If parents want to educate their children well, they must first set an example. After all, the children at home will always look after themselves. If they have a bad temper, they will become grumpy. Without self-discipline, it is more difficult for children to learn actively than to ascend to heaven. Parents become excellent themselves, and children will learn from you and become more and more excellent, so many people say that educating children is a long-term exercise.