Lovely and tenacious Cecilia Cheung, privately lovely and tenacious Cecilia Cheung, is tenacious. When a woman shoulders heavy responsibilities at home, she can see her tenacity and calmness. It is precisely because of these two excellent qualities that Cecilia Cheung's culture educates children in the same way. In the interview of variety show, Cecilia Cheung indicated that she would never force her children to do things they hate, and would give them plenty of indoor space to give full play to.
Because they are all boys, I don't want to spoil them too much, because I think they should have the responsibility and responsibility that boys should have Sometimes children fall down, because I will hold my breath and let them stand up by themselves, like a real little man, so that even if they are knocked down by difficulties, they can stand up tenaciously.
In addition to Cecilia Cheung's "willful education", Cecilia Cheung also showed that it was not easy for him to be so strict. He understood that letting go was because he wanted his children to develop at will. Too much interference would make them unhappy, and parent-child communication would also lead to family discord. Cecilia Cheung was once exposed to the interface for children to choose arcade game, and was chosen as "willful education" by netizens for letting children play games unscrupulously. As we all know, the objective fact is that my son Lucas plays games very well and is self-disciplined. Excellent test results, jumped to technical secondary school at the age of eleven and grade two.
It is precisely because of Cecilia Cheung's correct concept of parenting that she became furious and praised her educational methods. I also agree with Cecilia Cheung. If you want to shape your child's tough and independent temperament, you need to let go moderately. If children want to develop freely and happily, they need to give full play to their indoor space.
I remembered something that happened to me. My friend dotes on the way of educating his children through culture, probably because he is almost forty years old before giving birth to a child. Therefore, if the child wants to achieve everything as much as possible, as long as the child cries and says that he wants to find his father, this friend will go home on holiday to accompany the child, but as soon as he says that he wants to learn to let go, he will let go. Sometimes children come to the enterprise to play and make trouble. Not tearing toilet paper, not tearing folder names.
Sometimes when children are hungry, they will gradually cry. This friend will coax children and take them to KFC, McDonald's and McDonald's. In short, all these will reach children as much as possible. I think that kind of education is not conducive to shaping children's tough and independent temperament. Everything based on crying will become a habit when you grow up. Because the child will feel something inside, as long as I cry, my father will buy it for me, and then I will have what I need when I cry. So sometimes I can give a suggestion to my friends, but friends must give their children a lot of love because they think they are still young.
Why can this kind of "willful education" educate top students with high self-control to have children in the future? In fact, the reason is very simple, that is, Cecilia Cheung is very kind to his children and can understand their hearts. Parents must consider their children's inner understanding, attach importance to their unconditional love, wait for them, and teach them to understand their abilities and solve difficulties from the inside. In addition, parents should have a heart to accompany their children to grow up all their lives. The first key point is unconditional love, which gives children a lifetime of energy. The second point is to raise children, and parents must grow up for life. The third point is to communicate with children in the right way.
To raise a child, parents must grow up all their lives. The child is the parent's "printer mother smiles at the baby and laughs with you;" Once you cry, many babies will cry with you. It can be said that parents' harm to their children is lifelong. Gao once exposed the harm of his father in the process of his growth in "Seven Pa Shuo": he never asked his father a question in his life, whether it was learning or training. It was not until he was forty years old that he gradually really got rid of family relations.
It is parents who do so much harm to children, so in the whole process of cultural education for children, parents' behavior is very important. An anxious parent with poor self-control can't raise a child with emotional stability, high sense of self-worth and strong self-control. Often, because of their bad temper, parents are impatient with their children's personal behaviors such as not wanting to eat, throwing things around, and even doing homework slowly, and they are furious. Light is abusive, heavy is big, ask yourself and answer yourself. This is due to the development of this parent-family relationship, which is developed by such methods and cultural education, so it is also subconsciously sent to today's children and families. Therefore, the cultural education of children requires parents to make changes, develop and even become lifelong students.
The development of children, like the development of petals, will of course grow up. Cultural education is a complicated management system, and parents must always care about it and grow up with their children. At this stage of growth, everyone should first understand the child's heart and accompany the child to grow up with unconditional love and reasonable family education. This is why Cecilia Cheung is so successful in willfully educating children.