If you work overtime at night, you have to sacrifice time with your children, which not only misses the best period of family education, but also alienates the parent-child relationship. Children will feel that their parents don't love them, which is the root of many children's growth problems.
Anyway, take a day off at the weekend and don't work overtime.
Work is dead and people are alive. You can definitely set aside a day to accompany your children if you want. Weekends are children's favorite days. They can go to the aquarium and amusement park with their parents. In this way, on Monday, children can talk happily with their parents about playing. Once this kind of experience and memory is blank, the child will feel that his mother and father don't love him, and it is easier to rebel during the rebellious period.
Teach him some good habits by example.
Not necessarily arithmetic, literacy, singing and drawing, but more important than these are excellent quality and good habits. For example, leftover peels should be thrown into trash cans, toys that don't play should be put into toy cabinets, public places should be quiet, take care of public property, and people should queue up consciously and don't compete.
These subtle good habits have an important influence on a child's life.
4. Remind the elderly to correct bad teaching concepts.
If the education methods are inconsistent, or the elderly have too many bad habits, it will not only be ineffective, but also offset the educational achievements of parents.
In fact, in addition to the above basic principles, there are 17 tips that can be used to achieve the purpose of family education, and parents can learn them.
Clever use of debris time
First, get dressed quickly in front of children, even in the cold winter, wake up, make a neat appearance, and compete with children who can get dressed quickly.
Second, praise the child for preparing the clothes to wear the next day the night before, and tell him that this is a good habit.
Third, after getting up, take your child to do push-ups or stretching exercises together. At first, children will be reluctant, but after sticking to the habit, they will get used to doing some simple warm-up activities after getting up every day.
Fourth, in the process of preparing breakfast for children, let children participate in some simple tasks, such as hot milk and setting dishes and chopsticks.
Before children go out, encourage them to look in the mirror and check whether the clothes are neat and full of energy.
6. Turn your mobile phone to vibrate and tell your child that you attach great importance to being with your family, so you need to turn your mobile phone to vibrate.
Tell your child something meaningful or happy at work today, and share your work with your child.
Eight, concentrate on listening to children's sharing, do not interrupt easily, and respond positively. Finally, you can give your child some advice.
Nine, exercise with children. Ball games, running and swimming are all good choices. And encourage children to persist.
When children want to watch TV, they should make an appointment. The content is chosen by parents. Stay nearby. When the child has a problem, you can discuss it.
Eleven, the family sets the parent-child reading time, and the whole family reads books that are beneficial to the soul and discusses them together.
Twelve, family game programs. The whole family plays some interesting games together, such as hide and seek.
Thirteen, encourage children to find some words of wisdom, you can also find the words of wisdom that children say, and let them copy them and post them in the room.
Fourteen, let the children live a regular life, then you need to prepare for sleep.
Check whether the child is ready for tomorrow, such as schoolbags, clothes, stationery, etc.
Sixteen, make a brief evaluation of the child's performance in one day, encourage good performance, and remind children to correct bad performance.
Seventeen, tell some relaxing and beautiful bedtime stories before the children go to bed. Tuck the child in, kiss him and say good night.
No matter how busy parents work, they can't delay their children's education. Children only need you for a few years in total. They don't accompany you when they need you. Don't wait for him to grow up without company, parents will regret not spending more time with their children.
I believe that as long as the above four basic principles and 17 daily fragmentation skills are achieved, every parent can harvest a child "close" to himself without delaying his daily work.