True girlfriends or plastic sister flowers, this is the latest online buzzword, which means that girlfriends look at each other affectionately, but it's just the surface, and I hate not stepping on each other's heads. Then when you hear your girlfriends speak ill of you everywhere, please make a good judgment first, whether your girlfriends' feelings for you are true feelings between girlfriends or so-called plastic sisters. Only by making this judgment can we find a solution to the problem, otherwise it is not good to wronged your girlfriend or forgive your fake girlfriend easily.
Second, know if your best friend really speaks ill of you.
If you hear your best friend speak ill of you again and again, then this step is omitted, but if you know that your best friend speaks ill of you through other people's news, please understand, because you don't know what the person who sent you the message is thinking. Ask yourself in many ways, really understand the true and false degree of this matter, and don't marry your girlfriend casually. Nowadays, many people are duplicitous, especially among women, and there are not a few who make irresponsible remarks and sow discord behind their backs.
Third, give your best friend a test.
This is very simple. Saying something in front of your girlfriend won't hurt you, but your girlfriend thinks it's your weakness or privacy, and repeatedly tells her never to say it. In a few days, if you go out and ask others, you will know whether your girlfriend has spread these words.
Fourth, quickly widen the distance with girlfriends.
This is my own behavior. For girlfriends or friends, it is best not to have girlfriends or friends. I don't want fake girlfriends or fair-weather friends who will bring me negative emotions and problems. So, when you find that your girlfriend speaks ill of you everywhere, please keep your distance from your girlfriend at the first time, whether your girlfriend is intentional or not, and talk about other things for the time being.
Fifth, make a clean break with your good friends.
No matter how good a girlfriend is, once the relationship between them is not good, then it is impossible for two people to go back to the past. Even if you two grew up together and went through all this, we can't expect you to get back together. Besides, do you dare to have a girlfriend who speaks ill of you everywhere From now on, be yourself, live a good life, and make a clean break with your plastic sister. You will find that your life will be better if you stay away from plastic sister flowers.