Open communication: First, you and your husband need to sit down and frankly exchange their views and concerns. Make sure that both sides have the opportunity to express their views and try to understand each other's views.
Common goals: Try to find your common goals and values. Although there may be differences in details, there may be some core values that you can agree with during the child's growth.
Respect diversity: remember that everyone has different backgrounds and experiences, which will affect their educational concepts. Respect and appreciate this diversity and try to find a balance.
Compromise and cooperation: Compromise is very important in the process of educating children. Let's see if we can reach a consensus in some aspects and compromise in others.
Expert opinion: If your opinions are very different, you can consider seeking expert advice, such as educational psychologists and family counselors. They can provide pertinent advice to help you resolve your differences.
Experiment and adaptation: Try to verify their methods in practice, and then make adjustments according to the results. Sometimes, the actual situation may make you realize that some methods are more suitable for children
Joint decision-making: Try to avoid turning the decision to educate children into a power struggle. Instead, try to turn decision-making into a common process, involving children and making decisions according to their needs and wishes.
Most importantly, try to maintain an attitude of respect, understanding and cooperation. Children's education needs the joint efforts of parents to ensure their all-round growth and support.