I don't understand why my father always scolds me for no reason. What did I do wrong? I tried to communicate with my father, who replied, "I can't say you are too much." I should say you. I raised you. Where do I say, I am right to hit you. " Alas, every day is very helpless and painful!
Think about yourself. Since junior high school, I have been buying and selling vegetables with my father in winter vacation and doing farm work with my parents in summer vacation. I usually wash my parents' clothes as long as I am at home. After going to college, I went out to sell vegetables or go out to work during the winter vacation (I have been to Jiangsu and Guangzhou), and did some part-time jobs after school (I sold meals in the school cafeteria, sorted books and equipment in the school library and laboratory, worked as a tutor, and distributed leaflets, etc.). ).
I also won a national inspirational scholarship in my study. You don't need to spend too much money during college. I think I have done well, but my parents always say that I have spent all my money at home and complain to me all day. After three days at home, I was scolded by my father. There may be many people who say that my parents are all for your own good, and I always tell myself that my parents are all for their own good. I don't want to.
If my father is my friend, then I am not interested in this person from the bottom of my heart, and I don't want to say a word to him. You think that with friends, you will always be angry for no reason. He won't admit the verbal and physical violence he committed against you, and will frame you with his values and idealized model from time to time.
Sometimes I laugh when I make a mistake, yell at you when I make a mistake, and even vent my feelings that I can't solve in the name of love. Do you never want to look at such a friend again?
Being a father and son is fate, but if you are born as two different people, there is no fate. He deprived me of my childhood happiness and my vision for the future, which is why I hate my father.