Cultivate righteousness: cultivate righteousness
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The Analects of Confucius? Wei Linggong XV says, "People can preach, but they can't preach." . Throughout the ages, it is the unshirkable responsibility of human beings and cultural undertakings to carry forward "Tao". Zhou Dunyi, a Hunan native in the Song Dynasty, once said that "literature carries the Tao" and books are the carrier of "literature".
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The Book of Changes, Meng, says: Meng who is righteous is also a sacred work. It means that when children grow up to four years old, they have begun to learn to use languages, and their learning ability is gradually enhanced. At this time, it is necessary to educate them about "cultivating honesty from an early age". Cultivating honesty means cultivating their correct thoughts and behaviors.
Question 2: What exactly does it mean to raise children? It is a kind of children's education thought that started from Confucianism. Childhood is the early enlightenment education for children, and fostering righteousness refers to cultivating all kinds of excellent virtues.
It probably means that children should be given a correct outlook on life and values when they are very young. At present, children's education mainly refers to children's education based on traditional culture.
Question 3: What is the upbringing of children? The idea of "cultivating honesty from childhood" comes from the Book of Changes.
I ching? Preface, Postscript and Biography of Prophecy: "The deceived person is also ignorant, and things are naive", pointing out that "ignorance" is the state of things in the naive stage. At the beginning, things are bound to be foggy, and so is the law of children's growth. Childhood refers to the characteristics of early childhood, so the ancients called early childhood education "ignorance" and enlightenment education "enlightenment education".
I ching? Menggua: "Enlightenment is also a noble work", which expresses the highest goal of education-the education of cultivating righteousness. Education should be carefully started, and the starting direction is the most important course in life, which determines the direction of life. "Yi" says: "The yuan, the good is also long." What is good? Tao Te Ching said: "Water is good for all things without contending", which benefits all things without contending, and teaches people to be good for righteousness. Those who are "positive" stop at one. The Tao is one and ends in one, that is, it is consistent with the Tao. Stopping at one is a "positive" word, that is, it is positive if it is in harmony with the Tao.
"Children's education" refers to the most important education given to children in their infancy. Reading Chinese classics is the best way to cultivate healthy qi. "Classic" refers to classic, authoritative and enduring works, "the most valuable", the most representative and perfect works that can best express the essence of the industry through historical selection.
Teacher Lai, a contemporary educator, a famous expert in Chinese studies, a practitioner of reading classics, the founder of cumulative education and the editor-in-chief of classic textbooks for reading classics, believes that the Book of Changes, including Huangdi Neijing, Shijing, Daodejing, Xiaojing, Diamond Sutra and Sun Tzu's Art of War, can best represent the highest wisdom of China's traditional culture. These classics in the humanities field contain formulas and laws for doing things, so that children can understand them from an early age and naturally achieve the goal of "cultivating honesty from an early age".
Question 4: How to implement children's moral education? It is natural to learn from children's habits. Children's moral education is the foundation of children's happiness and success. (1) Cultivate their righteousness, righteousness, righteousness (four positive) 1. Cultivate a pure and kind heart. First of all, parents should make sure that all children are kind. The external expression of kindness is the correctness and purity of conduct. Therefore, from the perspective of conduct, teachers should cultivate children's pure and kind hearts through words and deeds. There is no end to goodness, and so are the functions and functions of virtue, virtue and goodness born of goodness. Cultivating children's kindness and kindness is the foundation of cultivating children to be human. 2. Educate people about things and things (1). Correct attitude towards people: understand the five relations, know how to be filial to parents, love brothers, respect teachers, care for others, teach the concept of mutual assistance and get along with others, cultivate the mind of being kind to others, know how to meet the wonders of heaven, and know how to repay kindness. (2) About things: It is important to emphasize small things, not to be arbitrary, to be busy, to be busy with more mistakes, to pay attention to etiquette, to be honest, to establish the concept of dignity and trustworthiness, to educate people to take responsibility bravely, and to correct what they have learned is a kind character. Cultivate the attitude of calmly learning how to solve problems when facing difficulties, teach the ability to judge right and wrong, and cultivate the spirit of learning. (3) Object: Instill daily life must be thrifty and loving, but also explain the hardships of material sources and be grateful for the gifts of nature. For example, cultivate kindness, care for small animals and plants, locate things, respect and love things. Only in this way can it be used for a long time, as new as ever, and it is convenient to use. 3. Self-behavior constraints Rong Zhi is peaceful and can't do whatever he wants (there are few children in modern families, and many of them have developed the psychology of arrogance and doing whatever they want since childhood). It is the responsibility to take care of yourself in the room (such as folding quilts, clothes, tidying up desks, washing shoes and socks, and participating in housework). Politeness and politeness are required, and it is said that mouth is the door to wealth, and words are the most important. (2) Parents should set an example, be honest and not give orders; If they are upright, they will not obey orders. The basic point of setting an example is that parents should take the lead in demonstrating. For example, how to organize housework, the classification of goods, the placement of books, the placement of schoolbags, the sewing of buttons, the safety of household appliances, the arrangement of time and so on. If parents can understand with heart, they can teach their children the etiquette and norms of daily life. Therefore, setting an example is the most direct and effective way for parents to make their children successful. (3) Help children to set up their ambitions (without ambition, nothing can be achieved). Anyone who has achieved something will have ambition. When he was young, he could set lofty goals in life and needed the guidance and training of his parents. If we can often introduce the sages of ancient and modern China and foreign countries to our children, we can inspire their studious spirit and their infinite potential with their hard-working deeds and touching experiences. The children educated in this way will not only be brave enough to accept challenges, but also be brave enough to go forward. It can be seen that it is also a very important responsibility of parents to help children establish the direction and goal of life. (4) Familiar with classic reading materials. As a parent who teaches children to read classics, don't think that he is a child and doesn't know anything, so he will deal with it hastily. I want to enrich myself by learning from my children, and I am also the biggest beneficiary. (5) Teach children to practice the classic teaching method 1. Ask children to recite a fixed number of times a day, such as ten times, twenty times and thirty times. If you can accumulate more than 100 times a week, you can recite it naturally. The more familiar you are, the better. You can remember it all your life. Moreover, we should always review the classics we have recited, just as the Analects of Confucius said: reviewing the past and learning new things can be a teacher. The more times you recite it, the better, because reading it a hundred times is self-evident. 2. Explain the truth of being a man-combining life. Although many children read well, they have poor ability to get along with others, so it is difficult to face setbacks, and they are timid and narrow-minded. Therefore, they should apply the discipleship rule to their children. For example, we should respect our elders, be friendly to our classmates, behave appropriately in public places and cultivate excellent personal qualities. In particular, we have abundant virtue education resources, such as the eight virtue story's of filial piety, D, loyalty, faithfulness, propriety, honesty and shame, and the deeds of great sages who have been praised throughout the ages, which can be explained to him in combination with the development of children. Meng Ziyun: It is a great pleasure in life to be taught by talents in the world.
Question 5: What does it mean to be educated by others?
Definition of idiom: It means to give correct education from an early age.
The origin of the idiom, "Hey? Meng: "Education is also a sacred job."
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Question 6: What is "raising a decent teenager"? What does it mean to get this title? I don't quite understand. I hope you can give me some advice. Thank you! Children's cultivation, children's enlightenment and integrity, teenagers' aspirations and adults' morality.
The first stage: the cultivation of children-the establishment of a good personality
As we all know, 0-3 years old is the most malleable and relaxed stage in a person's life, and it is the golden age of education. Unfortunately, most people easily miss it. How to draw the most beautiful case on this piece of pure white paper and build a rock foundation that will stand for life is really an important topic that parents all over the world should care about together.
Looking back on a person's life, we all feel that a leopard cannot change his spots. We can say for sure that the most difficult person in life is habit; Once a good habit is formed, it will benefit you for life, otherwise it will be endless pain. Therefore, the first stage of parenting education is particularly important. Children in this period have almost no ability to learn independently, but their pure hearts can fully absorb all the information from the outside world with a high degree of intuition, just like taking pictures of the scenery in a mirror, and accept it indiscriminately. This is an important period that constitutes the foundation of temperament and personality throughout their lives. Education at this time depends on parents' initiative to give correct guidance.
For example, when you hold your child in your arms or play with him, you often affirm your child with pleasant mood and gentle praise: you are the most filial child, the kindest child, the most cheerful child, the smartest child, the healthiest child, the most diligent child and the most fond of reading. In addition, parents can often play beautiful Chinese and western classical music to cultivate their children's elegant temperament.
Creating a good educational atmosphere and learning environment is an important factor affecting the sound development of children's personality. Therefore, if parents want their children to have good personality traits (results) in the future, they should praise their children more now (reasons). Praise and affirm him happily several times every day, which will inevitably impress children's pure hearts and form lifelong personality traits. The formation of good habits and the establishment of a good personality are all accomplished in the relaxed and pleasant praise and affirmation of parents. Children with good nature will develop more self-confidence and perfection after such praise and affirmation. Children with low temperament need more praise and affirmation from their parents to make up for it, so as to correct or alleviate their bad habits invisibly. This is the secret of preschool education! Wise parents, please don't miss this short three years!
The second stage: the cultivation of innocence-the cultivation of sage wisdom.
By the time the child is 4 years old, he has gradually learned the application of language and his learning ability has gradually improved. At this time, they should be educated in the street. Cultivating honesty means cultivating their correct thoughts and behaviors. Whether it is psychological research or the growth experience of ordinary people, we all know that children aged 4 to 13 rely on their parents because of their underdeveloped knowledge and weak understanding. However, because he is not deeply involved in the world, his heart is still pure, which is the most memorable stage in his life. How to grasp the particularity of his memory and do a good job in education is the most worthy of deep reflection.
The ancient sages and sages were far-sighted, and invariably chose the Four Books and Five Classics, Lao Zi and Zhuangzi as the main teaching materials, and the beautiful ancient poems recognized in the past dynasties as the auxiliary teaching materials to teach children to read repeatedly and encourage them to recite. In this way, he gave full play to his good memory and recited the most valuable classics. When his heart is pure, he often comes into contact with the aboveboard wisdom of sages to subtly influence his temperament. The value of classics will be fragrant and bright with the growth of his life experience, which can help him overcome the adversity in life. Long-term reading and training can cultivate his ability to read ancient Chinese, so the wisdom treasure of Mandarin Chinese will be left for him to explore. He is convinced that this will cultivate his spirit, broaden his mind and correct his conduct. Reading one more book like this will benefit you, and even reading one more sentence will have the effect of one sentence. This lifelong education will plant roots and seedlings in the children's reading stage. Ten years is easy, but conscience is rare. Don't idle away your time.
As for how to teach children to read the Bible? The method is simple. As long as parents and teachers are good at using their spare time, they will naturally recite fluently by guiding, encouraging or rewarding their children to read and familiarize themselves repeatedly. If parents can take time out to accompany their children to study, it is not only good for themselves, but also the best parent-child activity. According to the experience of the older generation, if we can grasp the ten best memories >>
Question 7: What does it really mean to be a child? Parenting is a kind of children's education thought that originated from Confucianism. Childhood is the early enlightenment education for children, and the cultivation of righteousness refers to the cultivation of various excellent virtues.
It probably means that children should be given a correct outlook on life and values when they are very young. At present, children's education mainly refers to children's education based on traditional culture.
Question 8: What does it mean to cultivate integrity and virtue? "Self-cultivation" originated from the Book of Changes. I ching? Blind? Haiku says: "Education is also a sacred job." I ching? Blind? Xiang Ci said, "Meng, a gentleman will reap the fruits of Xiu De." Yu is education. I ching? Meng Gua's educational idea of "cultivating righteousness", that is, he hoped that educators would pay attention to cultivating students' correct mind and behavior, influenced China as the oldest educational thought. Qianlong, Emperor Gaozong of the Qing Dynasty, once wrote "cultivating benevolence, righteousness and virtue" as a plaque in his study. Yongzheng, Sejong of the Qing Dynasty, wrote a couplet saying: "Honesty-oriented, Ming-oriented" to educate the emperor to strengthen his self-cultivation and inherit the great unity. As a university, it not only produces ideas and knowledge, but also undertakes the sacred responsibility of cultivating citizens with moral conscience for society. British educator John? Henry. Newman pointed out in "The Ideal of University": "University is an advanced protection force for all knowledge and science, facts and principles, exploration and discovery, experiment and thinking ... neither infringing nor giving in to any party." Book of rites? The opening of "University" also said: "The way of a university is to be well-known and close to the people, and stop at perfection." In other words, the purpose of university education is to show everyone's inherent virtue, and then push others to others, so that everyone can get rid of filth and accept new life, thus tending to the highest state of perfection (purposeful). Therefore, the primary function of a university is to cultivate people's virtue and make them "people"; It is very important to cultivate moral education and honesty. "Right" represents the controlling power of the main aspects of the contradiction of value orientation of truth, goodness and beauty. Only by being correct can we determine the truth, goodness and beauty of things and make things stable and harmonious. Righteousness is the right way, which is the bright road of the world through the ages and represents the highest ideal of truth, goodness, beauty and harmony that human beings have long yearned for and pursued. It is a sacred and great achievement of the university to cultivate students' pure quality and guide them to stick to the right path. Righteousness is righteousness, and it is the noble spirit between heaven and earth. There are good and evil in people's hearts and high and low personalities, which are all the results of the struggle between good and evil in their hearts. "Mencius? Sun Chou said, "I am good at cultivating expensive gas. "... is qi, which is too big to be right and too straight to be harmful, so it is stuck between heaven and earth. It is also qi, which is consistent with righteousness and Tao; Nothing, nothing. Only by cultivating the right path and righteousness can universities cultivate the just personality of teachers and students, and they are worthy of standing between heaven and earth.
What is the language of "fine survival and self-generation"? In the industry. Guan Zhong (725-645 BC) was the prime minister of Qi, who helped Qi Huangong become the first overlord in the Spring and Autumn Period. His thoughts are reflected in The Tube. " Pipe? "Internal Strength" said: "Essence is self-generated, and it is stable and glorious outside, but it thinks that Quan Yuan is noble and peaceful inside, and it thinks that it is profound. If you don't do it, you will be solid; There is no shortage of springs, and the nine orifices are connected. It is the ability to be poor in the world and be at home in the world. " Guanzi holds that the essence of things, the spirit of heaven and human virtue. Everything in the world is indispensable; As far as personnel is concerned, it is not only the origin of human morality, but also the source of prosperity. People living in the world are not only the material existence of flesh and blood, but also the cultural existence of spiritual production, which requires such a spirit: ambition, bone, righteousness and spirit; Career development also depends on such a spirit: heroism, popularity, morale and atmosphere! With this spirit, the tree of life will be endless and the flower of career will be brilliant. Without the strong will of "grinding a sword for ten years", the tenacious pursuit of "snow in a cold window for ten years" and the firm insistence of "breaking the wall for ten years", our university located in the northern border may be able to create today's glory; It is with this spirit that our school has been able to overcome all kinds of difficulties and achieved remarkable results. The practice of running a school for 55 years shows that with this spirit, individuals can settle down and their careers can flourish.
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