At the right time, choose a way that children can bear to communicate with them, and let her know that both teachers and parents should be willing to undertake the suggestions and requirements put forward by children in their studies and days. No matter what method you choose, it is for her own good. Even if there are problems with the methods or ways chosen by teachers and parents, don't treat them ambitiously. If they want to raise them, they can put forward their own opinions and discuss better ways to solve the problem together. We should respect our children in our daily life, treat them equally, establish a relationship of mutual trust with them, and tell them that no matter how difficult they are or how big their mistakes are, mom and dad will always be your friends, and you can talk to them at any time. Mom and dad must be your solid shoulders.
Second, establish a clear learning intention.
Tell him to study for himself, master common sense and skills and lay a solid foundation for better homework in the future. Only by mastering common sense can we not be shielded by society; Will not become a burden to society; I won't let mom and dad's hard work be in vain. Summer vacation or winter vacation, you can take her to the countryside to experience life and understand the hardships and tenacity of rural children. You can also ask her to buy a newspaper, or go to a place with poor working environment to let her know that making money is not a simple job, and cherish today's happy learning environment and days.
Third, build self-confidence and cultivate excellent study habits to tell children that everyone is excellent. As long as you believe in yourself, work hard with a positive attitude, keep the common sense taught by the teacher in mind, and do your homework well, success must be yours. Besides, we must form excellent habits in our study and daily life. In learning, we should finish the homework assigned by the teacher before playing, and be diligent in thinking and discovering when doing homework; In daily life, she should be independent, go to bed early and get up early, be polite and so on, all of which will help her study and life to be smoother and easier in the future.
Fourth, avoid paying attention to scores.
Personally, I don't think scores can be used as a measure of children's future life. It can only tell children what uncertain local common sense they have in their study, with the intention of letting them gain more common sense. I think learning is a lifelong course. When the child grows up, her understanding and thinking ability will be stronger. Common sense should be fine. In addition, every child has his own strengths and characteristics, and will have his own development direction. Therefore, as parents, don't stare at children's grades all day, and be a barometer of children's grades. Children are in high spirits when they get high marks, and discouraged when they get low marks. It will make children nervous, scared and unwilling to study all day. Parents should focus on cultivating their children's moral character, focusing on cultivating their children's ability to invent and learn, so that children can learn easily.
Verb (abbreviation for verb) praise, forgive and tolerate children.
Appreciation education is a good educational method. Generally speaking, what children want most is the appreciation of their parents, which will arouse their sense of self-worth and dignity, make them more active and diligent in everything they do in their studies and days, and form an excellent character. In addition, parents should forgive and tolerate their children more. Children have their own ideas, and of course they are cunning and disobedient. In this case, parents must teach and guide patiently and be a competent parent.