The so-called crying for poverty means that no matter what family conditions, whether parents are rich or not, the appearance of children shows that the family's economic situation is not good and there is no extra money to meet the excessive demands of children. Parents will be embarrassed when facing their children's material needs.
Crying poor education won't make children sensible? Children who are sensible are the most distressing, and they will become depressed because of external constraints. This kind of crying-poor education seems to make children obedient and sensible, but it does great harm to children. This kind of education will limit children's horizons and patterns, hinder children's physical and mental development, and ultimately will only outweigh the benefits. If a child thinks he is poor from an early age, he may be poor all his life. Children should give them a proper material life so that they can see the world from a higher angle in the future. ?
What adverse effects will crying poor education have on children? One causes children to feel inferior?
When children are young, it is particularly easy to have a comparison mentality. When others have something, but they can't have it, they will feel out of place with the people around them, and there will be an emotion in their hearts, which is called inferiority. The mother's education of crying for poverty is to let her children learn to be frugal and not to squander freely, but in fact, she chose an inappropriate way, ignoring her children's inner feelings and making them feel mentally lacking and limited in action. ?
Second, it is not conducive to future interpersonal communication?
Everything in the world is universally connected, no one is a lonely person, and no island is an island. Whether studying at school or developing after entering the society, interpersonal communication is an essential part. In today's society, interpersonal communication is inseparable from the foundation of material living standards, and entertainment needs money to maintain. Money is an important factor to maintain the normal operation of society and the communication between people. Children who have grown up in the way of crying for poverty have a deep-rooted belief that money needs to be thrifty and they dare not spend it indiscriminately. This wrong idea will lead them to close themselves up, unwilling to communicate with others and make themselves lonely.
Affect the horizon? Children who grew up crying for poverty are generally short-sighted, and they pay more attention to the immediate budget than the long-term interests. Will focus on their own acres of land, will lead to the limitations of vision, it is difficult to have greater development. This kind of crying-poor education is inappropriate. Material poverty may be temporary, but spiritual poverty will affect life. So parents should not be too harsh on their children's material education. I will try my best to let children enjoy life, cultivate their correct values, let them have a rich and fulfilling heart, and realize inner richness and prosperity. ?