Sadly, the deceased has passed away, and there are predecessors of the post-1950 s who are also teachers and friends, partners of the post-1970 s who share joys and sorrows, and colleagues of the post-1980 s who work together and are grateful to have crossed paths with them at some time in their lives. I used to think that the literati's "sadness of spring, hatred of autumn and winter, hatred of snow" was too sentimental, and the natural seasonal changes were so sentimental. Because the layman didn't know the darkness of night during the day, it was difficult to know the elegant sadness. Indeed, this autumn is a bit sad, waving goodbye again and again, smiling, leaving the world, silently saying goodbye, but waiting for the afterlife. In a trance, obviously uncomfortable.
A man who still needs to bow, the father of his good friend Yun Hong, has never met before but is very respectful. He is elegant, humble, knowledgeable and open-minded. He struggled with cancer for ten years and left peacefully not long ago. Yun Hong's eulogy was well written. The last sentence, "I knew my destiny from the past, and obviously my father didn't waste his life", made me cry and couldn't help thinking of my late father, who left for ten years on February 30th, 201/year.
The people of Sri Lanka have all passed away, as have the living. "Life is half like autumn, half clear and half sad", which is not as good as Mr. Dongpo's "the world is a big dream, and life is a few times cool in autumn".
Thankfully, my niece is a lecturer and has always been a role model for my younger brothers and sisters, and will continue to study PhD. My nephew is good at project management, data analysis and network security, and decided to join Accenture to start a new journey. My daughter lived up to her youth and successfully studied at Peking University Medical College near Weiming Lake. Her research direction is elderly/community nursing. No matter whether she is engaged in scientific research or teaching in the future, I hope she can make some contributions to the coming aging society, especially in the field of smart health care. The scholarly family and family style are passed down, and the growth and progress of the three children are gratifying. I wish my 90-year-old sister, brother and sister a new chapter in their lives in 2022 two months later.
Recalling a letter I wrote to my daughter at the bar mitzvah, it took me three years to prove that "the heart will return to its dream place and live up to its youth". Starlight doesn't ask passers-by, but time helps those who wait. Some things just come late, but they won't be missed.
It's already late autumn. "Why do people feel sad about autumn?" It's just that some things are not sad autumn. As we all know, people who are tolerant and affectionate are easy to get hurt. If they become heartless, most of them will be deeply hurt. A scarred heart will always be harder and so sad. Perhaps, it will bring another kind of practical happiness.
At a certain age, I became more and more aware of the four words "the intersection of sadness and joy" written by Master Hongyi before his death. Of course, his sadness refers to compassion for all beings, and his joy refers to joy and happiness. I am glad that I finally achieved a positive result and died in bliss. I can't wait for a mortal, just a person. Too far away from his realm, only literally. Sadness and happiness are intertwined. Ordinary people's lives are not too exciting and ups and downs, but more dull, trivial and troublesome, sometimes very tired.
In fact, the sorrows and joys of ordinary people are better than hopeless numbness. The growth of nephews and daughters and the joy of daughters may be the rays of light in this gloomy year.
Big dreams and cool autumn, sadness and joy are only experienced when you are alive.
I didn't choose suitable songs such as autumn leaves. Personally, I think the style of the following song is quite sad and happy, with tears and laughter, darkness and light, liberation, dawn and hope.
The title of the song is Icelandic,
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They escaped the weight of darkness/
They escaped the weight of darkness.
Copy the music review: "This is probably the softest song in OA. I love this song and 1440 and 3055. This song was amazing when I first heard it. From beginning to end, it is soft and full of innocence. It seems to be composed of smiles and tears. "