The most unsuccessful education for parents, apart from focusing only on learning, is to always push the mistakes of things to their children. Bian Xiao found that many parents would never admit that they were wrong after discovering that they had done something wrong, and would put the blame on their children.

First, only pay attention to children's learning. Nowadays, many parents never pay attention to their children's thoughts in the process of educating them. Only pay attention to children's academic performance. When children's academic performance drops somewhat, they will choose to criticize them. And some parents choose to abuse their children directly, which is very wrong. Some parents will be happy to see their children's good grades. In fact, Bian Xiao thinks that these two extreme behaviors of parents will also make children very uncomfortable.

Second, push the mistakes to the children. Bian Xiao found that there are many parents in China who will never admit that they have done something wrong, so they will choose to blame their children for their mistakes, but it is also very wrong for parents to do so. If we always blame our mistakes on children, it will also lead to a growing gap between children and parents. Moreover, children are not willing to take responsibility, but also learn, as well as parents' pot-throwing behavior.

Third, summarize. Bian Xiao hopes that parents can know that it is very important to educate their children. When there are some mistakes or omissions in our education, we should apologize to our children in time, which will also help them develop better habits, let them know how to treat what they have done correctly, and let them have the courage to take responsibility. Bian Xiao hopes that all parents can educate their children correctly. When we educate our children, we should also educate them with a normal heart.