In the early stage of children's personality and psychological development, they often show the characteristics of disobedience and persistence. This is actually normal, because the child is in a strong and willful stage at this stage. As parents, we need to know and understand the characteristics of children in this period, so as to make the best use of the situation and give them a correct education.

Get to know children better.

Understand the reasons why children are disobedient and explain the truth patiently. When children don't want to listen to our suggestions, we need to find out the reasons, which may be because the content is reasonable but the timing is wrong, or the children may misunderstand the requirements. At this point, we need to reason with our children in plain language and allow them to refute and argue.

♀? Avoid beating and scolding children.

Avoid beating and scolding children. When children insist on their own opinions, parents need to keep calm and not intimidate them. Compulsory education will only make children passive and fearful, and in the long run, it may even lead to bad behavior. On the contrary, we can use interesting toys or new things to distract children and help them calm down.

Don't criticize children in public.

Don't criticize children in public. For children with high self-esteem, don't expose their shortcomings or deficiencies in front of relatives and friends. We shouldn't criticize or insult them in public, which will seriously hurt children's self-esteem.

Individualized education

Every child is unique, and the education methods suitable for them are also different. But in any case, as long as children are given enough love and guided in an appropriate way, there will be good results.