I still remember that when the parent-teacher conference was organized, every time I came to school, my mother would account for three quarters, and my father was very few.
The survey shows that 60% of mothers are independent in family education, 15% is dominated by fathers, and less than one third of parents share the responsibility for education.
I asked some classmates. Does dad often ask you about your study?
"My dad just makes money and basically doesn't care about my study."
"My mother is in charge of me at ordinary times. Only when I make a mistake will my father severely criticize me. "
It can be seen that the absence of fathers in children's education is still very serious, and it is by no means a case.
This is not good for children's growth. Because, the father should be the leader and person in charge in the family, and together with the mother is the spiritual pillar of the child, which is indispensable. The father's perseverance, courage, daring to take risks, independence and facing difficulties are all important sources of children's character formation, which can't be completely replaced by the mother.
I remember teaching a student, Xiaoguang, whose father had traveled for a long time and seldom talked to him. His mother became the supervisor of his life and study. Therefore, he lacks a sense of belonging to his family, is unsociable and has poor self-control. Later, he was addicted to online games, and his mother was extremely anxious but helpless.
And vice versa? When organizing students to start military training after last summer vacation, in order to encourage their children to stick to it, a parent gave up his job and went to school to participate in training with his children in the scorching sun every day. What a spiritual inspiration this is for children! After training for a week from beginning to end, chubby children have never suffered or been tired again. Love this dad!
Beethoven once said, "I don't know what is more sacred than raising children." Cai Xiaoxiao once wrote a book "My career is my father". He regards the education of five children as a career and manages it carefully. The last five children were all trained as doctoral students.
Dad is an important playmate in children's life. A good father often takes his children to play games and exercise together. In this process, the sense of pleasure in children's hearts will become a valuable spiritual wealth that will be remembered for life. At the same time, the father's participation in education will also promote children's intellectual development. What he learns from his mother is more common sense of language and life, and his action of repairing machinery, circuits or utensils will stimulate children's creativity.
Therefore, if children form a perfect personality, the role of the father can not be ignored. Calling on more fathers not to neglect their children's education while they are busy making money is the greatest significance of raising children.