1. Make friends with children and don't take excessive actions. To educate children correctly, we should put down our posture and take the initiative to be friends with them, instead of always condescending. Parents should often have in-depth and intimate conversations with their children to convey their love for them. Rough treatment of children can not only make him realize his mistakes and correct them, but also leave a shadow in his heart and his personality becomes extreme.
2. Give your children more company. No one can replace the love and companionship of parents. Only with the careful teaching and companionship of parents can children get better education and form good habits. However, in real life, many parents have to ask their grandparents to come over to help look after their children, or just leave their children at home. In this case, parents can't give their children enough company, which will have a bad influence on his growth. Therefore, parents should treat their children more attentively, communicate with them more, or make more videos and phone calls to keep abreast of their children's life and study, so that children can feel that they still care and love themselves even if their parents are not around.
Parents should set an example. Parents are their children's first teachers, and their words and deeds will have a subtle influence on their children, so parents must set a good example for their children. There are many scholarly families, parents with high quality and good virtue, and their children are naturally educated. On the contrary, it is difficult for children to develop good behavior habits when they grow up in a smoky family environment.
4. Learn to respect children. Although children are dependent on their parents to grow up, they are also independent individuals and need the respect of others, such as respecting children's interests-interest is the internal motivation to constantly stimulate children's creativity. When children show interest in a certain aspect, parents should not stifle it, but encourage them and help them learn a new skill. Respect the child's personality-when the child makes a mistake, parents should not scold him too much, but help him realize the mistake, guide him to correct it and avoid making it again. Respect children's opinions-when important decisions need to be made in the family, don't forget to ask children's opinions, especially those that affect them. In this way, children can feel respected and grow more confident and excellent in the future.