Because the mother wants to give Buddy some encouragement and the father is complacent about his son's good grades, Buddy thinks that both wonderful and terrible are love for him. His growth is inseparable from his mother's encouragement and support, and also from his father's constant reminder. It is wonderful to encourage him to create as always, and it is terrible to remind him not to be proud. It is precisely because these two kinds of love have made him, so he is very grateful to his parents for their love.

I think Buddy is a very lucky boy, because he has a kind mother and a strict father. With the encouragement of his mother, he didn't feel inferior, and he strengthened his confidence to continue writing. Under his father's sternness, he went on writing an excellent work without being carried away by praise. This shows that in the process of growing up, a person needs both encouragement and praise, but also criticism and guidance to continuously improve himself.

Imagine if Buddy's parents either praised his poems as "wonderful" or commented on his poems as "terrible". How could Buddy write good works and become a writer later? Therefore, it is really wise for Buddy's parents to educate their children. I hope my parents can learn from buddy's parents.

Encourage education:

As Derricks said, "Children need encouragement, just as plants need water." They can't live without encouragement. But it is not easy to encourage a misbehaving child. Many adults don't know what encouragement is. Another reason why encouragement is not easy is that too many adults are confined to a stereotype and firmly believe that punishment can prompt children to improve their behavior.

Actually, it's not. Encouragement is to provide opportunities for children to develop the perception of "I have the ability, I can contribute, I can influence what happens to me, and I can know how to deal with it".