Recently, the results of the college entrance examination have been announced one after another, and the top candidates of the college entrance examination have also been released. It is not difficult to find that most of the top candidates in the college entrance examination are concentrated in famous schools in provincial capitals or sub-provincial capitals, with excellent family education, well-off family and high comprehensive quality.

Yesterday, Mr. Chen said that his cousin's daughter got the 55th place in the province. In fact, this achievement was expected by everyone. Why do you say that? Because I know that this child has a sense of learning since childhood, and his family is democratic and harmonious.

For example, 20 18, Hefei Yizhong Zheng won the championship with a total score of 678.

In an interview, this quiet girl with glasses said that she likes to travel abroad. She traveled to more than ten countries in junior high school, and traveled to the United States alone at the age of 12.

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For example, Zhou Chuan, the top science scholar in Sichuan Province, scored 7 18 in the college entrance examination, from Suining City, Sichuan Province. Senior three 18 make-up exam first.

Zhou Chuanyou has a sister who has been studying in Peking University Medical College. Her idol is Cristiano Ronaldo. She has a good family, excellent family education and extremely self-discipline.

For another example, Zhuo Xicong, who scored 653 points in Sichuan liberal arts, came from Chengdu Experimental Foreign Language School.

He is handsome and has many hobbies. He is a school host and likes model couplets.

When the results came out for the interview, he showed a segment from the English drama Cat, which attracted bursts of applause.

Excellent parents, good family style, self-confidence and optimism, excellent grades.

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The characteristics of these top college entrance examination candidates can't help but remind people of a passage that Xiong Xuanang, the top college entrance examination candidate in Beijing, said in an interview with CCTV last year:

At present, many top scholars are powerful and capable people in their families.

I am a child of a middle-class family, born in Beijing. The educational resources I can enjoy in a big city like Beijing determine that I can take many shortcuts when studying.

Whether you admit it or not, those urban children with qualified parents and rich resources are leaving those rural children with poor families and blocked information far behind.

Summer vacation is coming. Whenever this time is the busiest time for parents, parents will choose remedial classes for their children: English classes, composition classes, Olympics classes, eloquence classes … Each class is overcrowded and extremely hot.

In the training institutions, there are anxious parents everywhere, trying their best to make up for the shortcomings and create specialties for their children. Special classes are full of childlike children, racking their brains, writing hard, confident and striving for the best appearance.

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In rural areas, education seems to be dispensable for parents, and the "poor idea" is deeply rooted.

A few years ago, I worked as a third-grade head teacher in a rural primary school. Although there are 23 students in a class, I can't breathe because there are so few extra things every day.

The reason lies in the educational concept and parenting behavior of parents and guardians. Many parents think that what they learn in school is useless after graduation.

Some students also said: "I was born and raised in the countryside, and what I learned at school is useless in the countryside." It is better to study at home at school. "

At the same time, many parents think that it is better to transfer education investment to family productive labor when their children have no hope of further education and it is difficult to "jump out of the farm".

A farmer put it more bluntly: instead of continuing to provide education to children, it is better to let them earn money earlier. Even if you can't make money, at least you don't have to pay. Dull is also a kind of life. Why did you spell it like that?

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Is there a sentence that doesn't say so? I am most afraid that you will be mediocre all your life, and it is valuable to comfort yourself.

Even in the eyes of most rural students and their parents, it takes several years or even more to go to school, and the result is to return to the countryside. Reading has become a "useless" thing to a considerable extent.

In addition, in the eyes of many rural students, there are many parents and neighbors who can maintain food and clothing and even get rich despite their poor academic performance.

It is said that no matter how poor you are, you can't be poor in education, but the poorer you are, the less you pay attention to education. Economic poverty is understandable, but many parents have "poor thinking".

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When rural parents have to leave their homes and wander around in order to survive, leaving their young children at home for a year, education has become a top priority for urban families.

When rural children don't know what is Olympiad, what is potential English, what is Bel Canto and what is one-on-one teaching, teaching AIDS have become the daily study of urban children.

Without contrast, there is no harm. After the comparison, it is even more helpless. Children's education is not a person's business, nor is it a responsibility that a person can bear.

Family education plays an important role in promoting children's habit formation, learning attitude and academic performance. The growth of children depends not only on the constraints of the school system and the management of teachers' teaching, but also on the family environment and parents' education.