Since you are lovers, it means that your relationship is abnormal and belongs to the scope of lewdness, with serious consequences. He may sigh, because he is reluctant to give up for fear of hurting you. Why don't you watch Zhao Xiuying's Lecture on Secular Causality Education (Hongyu Culture) with him, and you will know the consequences clearly, and you will realize them before the future consequences are rewarded. I hope you have a good time soon!