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What do you think or suggest about Yongding tutor lecture? The content of general lectures is based on the basic principles of family education, so that parents can understand the correct educational methods, use advanced educational concepts and easy-to-understand examples to make them easier to understand, and experts will also interact with parents, with good results. The lecture mainly focuses on ideological and moral cultivation, cultural quality, behavior habits and psychological health guidance.
Your opinions or suggestions on school family education are the key points, so that schools can attach importance to the atmosphere and guidance of school family education. The establishment of the relationship between home and school.
It is suggested that schools can use time to hold lectures on family education, the importance of family members to family education, and schools can carry out thanksgiving activities to introduce the concept of family education.
How to write opinions or suggestions on family education books (2) Basic principles.
Stick to Lide Shu Ren. Take cultivating and practicing socialist core values as the core and foundation of family education, highlight ideological and moral education, and guide children to establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values.
Adhere to demand orientation. Take the needs of parents and children as the starting point and destination of family education, be demand-oriented, pay attention to solving outstanding problems in family education, and provide diversified and targeted guidance services for parents.
Adhere to systematic advancement. Do a good job in the top-level design of family education and pay attention to resource integration and collaborative innovation. Implement standardization, curriculumization, institutionalization and normalization of family education, and systematically promote the guidance and service of family education.
(3) Work objectives. Improve parents' core literacy and promote their growth. Establish and improve the family education curriculum system, expand the position of family education guidance service, build a backbone team of family education combining full-time and part-time, establish and improve the family education guidance service system, further improve the professional level of family education guidance, and build an educational ecological community combining school, family and society.
Second, the key tasks
(A) to enhance the core literacy of parents. Under the guidance of the National Family Education Guidance Outline and the Five-year Plan for Guiding and Promoting Family Education (20 16-2020) issued by the All-China Women's Federation and the Ministry of Education, we should accurately grasp the core content of family education, condense the core literacy of parents' education, guide parents to establish "three consciousnesses" such as lifelong learning, leading by example and parenting responsibility, and enhance parents' understanding, independent learning and parenting responsibility for their children. Help parents effectively improve the professional level of family education.
(2) Strengthen the curriculum construction of family education. According to the core literacy of parents' education, taking children's "happy growth" as the goal, taking family moral education as the core, taking socialist core values, Chinese excellent traditional culture, advanced educational concepts and scientific education knowledge as the important contents, and combining the characteristics of age and school period, a family education reader with Chengdu characteristics was developed, and a family education curriculum system for primary and secondary schools (including kindergartens and secondary vocational schools, hereinafter referred to as primary and secondary schools) was established. Encourage primary and secondary schools to develop personalized family education school-based curriculum. Support primary and secondary schools to purchase family education curriculum services.
(3) Strengthen the construction of family education team. Primary and secondary schools should establish a backbone team of school-level family education teachers with principals, principals in charge (principals), moral education directors, grade leaders and class teachers as the main body, and experts, scholars and outstanding parents as participants. The district (city) county education administrative department shall set up a family education lecturer group to guide the local schools to carry out family education. Encourage district (city) county education administrative departments, primary and secondary schools to form a team of family education volunteers, and give full play to the role of "five seniors". Carry out the training of family education instructors in primary and secondary schools in Chengdu, and incorporate family education guidance into the training content of principals, class teachers and subject teachers in primary and secondary schools.
Opinions of the Ministry of Education on Strengthening Family Education Your opinions or opinions Family education should mainly focus on habit cultivation, skill training and personality release. Love your country, love your family, love your society, study hard, be bold and careful about safety, and have a happy life!
Recommend books about family education, you can read Zeng Guofan's letters.
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There are disciples, augmented sages and so on.
You can find it on the big branch. com。
Please talk about your feelings and suggestions on family education practice in one sentence. It is unacceptable for parents to impose on their children what they thought was successful at that time.
Essay on Happy Family Education Experience; Write your own happiness and joy, opinions and suggestions in receiving family education. The basic principles of family education are as follows:
Step by step, do what you can, don't be demanding, and don't be too hasty. Haste makes waste, which is not only useless, but also harmful.
② Combination of teaching students in accordance with their aptitude and all-round development. We should not only attach importance to the development of children's personality and specialty, but also attach importance to the coordinated development of all aspects of quality.
③ Consistent attitude and unified education. Parents' educational attitude should be consistent and consistent, and should be consistent and unified with school education.
④ Persuasion education should be combined with practical exercise.
⑤ Combination of praise and reward with criticism and punishment.
6. The combination of emotion and reason.
All landowners timely education, perseverance.
There are many successful family education methods in the world, each with its own secrets and methods. Therefore, it is very difficult to combine all the successful family education methods in the world. Here we can only simply learn and introduce some basic principles and methods. If parents can take this as a reference when implementing family education, the most fundamental thing is to proceed from the reality of their own families and children. Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. This is the most fundamental and effective education method.
First, parents are both teachers and friends of children.
At present, when parents educate their children, they should first understand the new characteristics of contemporary family interpersonal relationships. Due to the changes and progress of society, people's democratic consciousness is generally enhanced. The parent-child relationship in the family is no longer the absolute obedience of children to their parents under the feudal patriarchal system, but has become a new interpersonal relationship between parents and friends. Therefore, in family education, we should adhere to the basic positions, viewpoints and methods that parents are both teachers and friends of children. Only in this way can it conform to the new characteristics of contemporary family interpersonal ecosystem, and it is possible to fundamentally establish a new type of intimate and relaxed parent-child relationship, thus laying a fundamental foundation for doing a good job in family education.
Under the guidance of such positions, viewpoints and methods, in family education, parents should be strict with their children and combine education with love. The attitude towards children should be looser, more tolerant, more heart-to-heart activities, less authoritarian, more suggestions, less arbitrary, more smiling faces and less angry faces. Friends have more friendship and less dignity as parents and teachers. In this way, the relationship between parents and children will be intimate and relaxed; Conducive to the formation of children's independent personality. Only in this way can we do a good job in family education and establish a close new family interpersonal relationship.
In modern family education, parents should set an example and teach by example.
The so-called teaching by example means that the education of children depends on both language (including writing) and action. Words and deeds include face-to-face language education, persuasion, inspiration, encouragement and criticism. It also includes the use of words, letters, family rules and other forms. In family education, teaching by example is very important, which cannot be abolished or underestimated. Understanding children's various situations, exchanging feelings, communicating thoughts, giving guidance, imparting knowledge, exhorting, encouraging and criticizing are the main methods and channels. Use writing, letters and other pen teaching methods under special circumstances. If educators are not allowed to meet the educated, they will have to write letters and letters. In a word, writing teaching is one of the basic forms and methods of educating children.
The so-called role model is to educate and motivate children with parents' practical actions. Educators should first do what children are asked to do. Their duty is to ask children to respect the elderly and honor their parents. Then, educators should first respect the elderly and honor their parents, so as to set an example for children and let them follow suit. If you don't respect your old people, but ask your children to respect and honor yourself, it will be very difficult. For another example, if you ask your children to be frugal, you should do the same yourself, instead of wasting money or spending money like water. If children are required to love learning and work hard, they should first love learning and work hard, and so on. In short, no matter what children are asked to do, they should set an example for them with their own actions, otherwise the effect of education is not good.
The so-called teaching by example is more important than teaching by words, that is, when educating children, we should use our own good actions to influence, influence and move them, instead of blindly ordering children to say such and such things, saying one thing and doing another. In family education, as long as we can really teach by example, and teaching by example is more important than teaching by words, family education can be done well in general.
Second, adhere to the combination of strict requirements and patient persuasion.
Family education, the master's work is ideological education, ideological transformation of his own children, pointing out the direction, correcting mistakes, clearing the fog, shaping children's soul, morality and personality, and ideological work of being a man. The key is to change people's ideas and attitudes and arouse people's enthusiasm. Mandatory orders can only bind people's words and deeds for a while, but not for a lifetime. Therefore, family education should combine strict requirements with patient persuasion. Because of the parent-child relationship between educators and educatees in family education; During this period, there is love between parents and children, which is far more intimate than other interpersonal relationships. Therefore, as long as we adhere to the combination of strict requirements and patient persuasion, education can achieve better or better results. The so-called strict requirements are the requirements for children. The content should be correct and the requirements should be high. Children who violate the requirements or make mistakes cannot be let go, nor will they be investigated and asked. We must make them realize their mistakes and correct them, and we must not tolerate them and let them grow and develop.
Understand the child's temper.
A short story about Confucius' education of students;
One day, student Luz asked him, "Can you do it if you hear it?" Confucius said, "No." Student You Ran asked again: "Can you do it when you hear it?" Confucius said, "Yes." Gong Xihua, a student, asked Confucius inexplicably, "Why do you have different answers to the same question?" Confucius said, "Ran usually flinches, so I give him courage; Lutz was too bold and reckless, so I beat him. "
Looking for children's bright spots
As the saying goes, "some inches long, some feet short." Comparing the advantages of other people's children with their own children's shortcomings often compresses and obliterates their own children's advantages and characteristics, making children feel that everything is inferior to others, living in mistakes and feeling inferior very easily.
Parents should keenly observe and analyze their children's situation, discover their advantages, strengths and positive factors in time, and seize all favorable opportunities to affirm and guide them. We should be good at discovering children's bright spots and making them carry forward.
* Einstein went to the park with children when he was a child. At first, Einstein played games with the children. Later, all the other children went to other places to play, but Einstein sat motionless on the ground. Some parents said to Einstein's mother, "Your son must be mentally ill." "No problem! He is thinking deeply that he will become a famous professor in the future. " Einstein's mother was not influenced by what others said because she knew her son.
* When Edison was in elementary school, the question that two plus two times equals four was not answered, and he was ridiculed as a "fool" by his teachers and classmates. Later, he was expelled because of poor grades. But Edison's mother Nancy was very insightful. She thought that the poor grades of children were mainly due to the improper methods of teachers, and decided to shoulder the heavy responsibility of educating children, even though she was nearly half a year old at that time.
Nancy knew that Edison was not interested in rote books, but was particularly interested in scientific experiments, so she tried to buy books about scientific experiments and provide experimental conditions at home. Edison finally became a great inventor in the world.
When Nancy Dixon was expelled from school at home, if she also thought her son was an idiot, hopeless, or a combination of sticks or laissez-faire, Edison was likely to be mediocre all his life, or take the wrong path, and an inventor died like this.
At the beginning of this century, there was a truth in Britain. Children in Zsigmondy are called stupefied. He was hard of hearing since he was a child. 10 was almost deaf in his teens. After careful observation, parents found that the child's eyesight was particularly good. Most people can only see the dust in the air in the sun, but they can see clearly without the sun. It is not good for children's hearing. Parents believe that disadvantages can be turned into advantages. If they can't hear, they can concentrate more on their research. In front of others, mothers always boast that their children have a pair of brilliant eyes. With the encouragement of his parents and his own efforts, Zsigmondy became a famous scientist and won the Nobel Prize.
Talk less and do more.
In educating children, parents should talk less and do more, and educate their children with body language and actions. This is more effective than silence.
Shula, a hero of the Great Patriotic War in the former Soviet Union, once fought with other children and tore his new coat when he was a child. When mother saw the coat she just bought, she was angry and sad. But she didn't reprimand, didn't say a word, just silently sewed her coat one by one until late at night. This long silence was a severe criticism of Shula, and he was blamed by his conscience in his mother's needle and thread. Shula himself said that he was "suffering from an unbearable, painful and spiritual spur." Shula kept staring at her mother in shame and finally couldn't help it. He threw himself into his mother's arms and said regretfully, "Mom, I will never do this again." After that, Shula never fought with his friends again, but he was very brave at the crucial moment with German fascism.
Let the children educate themselves.
Criticism is necessary when children are at fault. How to help children correct their mistakes? Some parents criticize their children and let them criticize themselves.
The famous writer Mark Twain has three daughters. Since the birth of the child, the couple have never scolded the child, let alone slapped him. All three daughters are well trained. His method is to let children educate themselves.
On one occasion, Mark Twain wanted to take his daughters to the suburbs for a holiday. The family sat in a carriage, rocking leisurely and enjoying the rural scenery. This was something that the daughters thought for a long time.
However, just before departure, the eldest daughter Susie began to beat her sister Clara. According to Mark Twain's family rules, if a child makes a mistake, the child should measure it, put forward his own punishment method and put it into practice after his parents decide. Susie thought about several punishment methods, hesitated for a long time, and finally made up her mind to say to her mother, "I won't travel today, which will make me remember forever that I won't make today's mistake again."
Recalling Bing Xin, Xiao Wu said, "What impressed me most was that my mother had a unique punishment for swearing and lying to us: gargling with soap." Let children educate themselves, urge children to blame themselves and reflect on themselves, which is conducive to children to correct their own problems and grow up healthily.
What suggestions do you have for family education guidance in schools? I'm not very good at it either. It is recommended to refer to the instructions of Master Daan. The ancients said that education should start from the earliest foundation. When a woman comes, she is a newly married wife. You should educate her. As soon as she comes, you should teach her, and then she will form good habits. When you teach a baby, you must start education. If you teach him kindness, he will form a good habit and walk on the right path from the beginning. If he is evil from the beginning, then every step he takes will be evil. He has formed a bad habit, and it is not easy for you to correct it. Therefore, we should seriously educate from the beginning. This kind of family education for children is not only a family problem, but also related to the rectification of the whole country. Educate children well, and the country and the world will be governed; Your children are not well educated, they are all robbers, they are disgusting and cruel people, then the world will be in chaos. Therefore, the rise and fall of the country and the chaos of the world all begin with family education. Now is the era of knowledge economy. School education is mainly about some knowledge and skills, and the education of moral personality has become increasingly meager in universities, primary and secondary schools. Therefore, every parent should clearly see that school education may focus more on the education of knowledge and skills, and you should not give up the education of moral personality too much. You must receive such an education in your own family. Now parents pay attention to their children's grades: how did you do in the exam, how many points did you get and how many points did you drop? He cares about this every day In fact, this problem is his teacher's concern. You should care about your child's virtue and personality. This is a problem that school education may not pay much attention to, and it is indeed a very important problem. To educate children well, parents should first educate themselves. Children are very good at imitation. You should educate your children to be filial and faithful, to be polite and honest, and your parents to be filial and faithful, to be polite and honest. If you are a parent, you are not filial to the elderly at all, bossing them around every day, and then you live in a good house by yourself, while your parents live in a bad house. Well, your children have seen it. When you get old, you will live in a rotten house. So this filial piety is not only verbal, you have to do it yourself. The reason why family education is poor now is that many parents don't set an example by themselves, so they don't know how to educate the next generation, forming a vicious circle, and then he has the hope of becoming a dragon, which adds a lot of burden to his children. I teach children many classes, including piano class, English class, computer class and this class and that class. Nowadays, family education is all about knowledge and skills, but no parent asks a moral person to teach him morality, probably very few. Each of us Buddhists, in our family education, try our best to follow the teachings of Yin Zu, so that children can get in touch with the education of saints from an early age: the Three-Character Classics and Disciples' Rules, including The Analects of Confucius, Mencius, University, The Doctrine of the Mean and The Book of Songs, so that children can get in touch with and recite a saint in their hearts.
The topic of family education has always been a constant topic: I think family education is a matter of different opinions. Not a comment, just my own thoughts.