Understand the child's psychology
To help children, we must first understand their psychology, what they are thinking and whether it is possible to break through.
Establish a normal communication mechanism
The second is to establish a normal communication mechanism with children, so that children can feel that your help is beneficial to them, and it is love rather than restriction.
Love, not limitation.
As long as you solve these two problems, I think you will be smart enough to help your children out of trouble and minimize the confusion you encounter.