power struggle
Criticism may make children more rebellious or even worse. Criticism is actually not as effective as we thought. It can only tell children that they can't do it.
Another way.
When a child makes a mistake, try another method. Give them a hug, ask them what happened and then tell them what to do in the future. The advantage of this is that it not only soothes the children's emotions, but also teaches them how to make up for their mistakes and avoid making mistakes again.
Age and intellectual development stage
Children's age and mental development stage are different, so should their educational methods. For children, we can personally demonstrate and tell them the harm of mistakes; For older children, we need more communication and understanding to ensure that they can realize their mistakes.
Educate children
Educating children is not only telling them what is right, but also teaching them how to think independently and how to solve problems. Let's be children's guides, not mere critics.