In the past, parents didn't care much about their children's education. They think that it is enough for children to know a few words, mainly because they need labor. Although sometimes there are some problems in eating, they are all very happy at that time.
Later, the society made a little progress, parents' thoughts were also changing, and parents' educational methods were also changing. They didn't beat or scold the children, they were just being reasonable. Children don't have to worry about their own food and clothing. Their down-to-earth study just woke up, but they were not very happy. Children are always in conflict with their parents.
When many parents worry about their children's problems, they will learn from the parenting experience of some public figures, such as Huang Lei, Sun Li, Yi Nengjing and so on.
However, some time ago, the actor's calm words awakened many parents, and many parents began to realize the root of the problem, and Jingjie himself was also hailed as a model of "true feelings on earth".
Everyone should be familiar with the tranquility of actors. Now she is often active in movies and TV series. She is a very qualified actress and a good mother.
Some time ago, in a popular variety show, Jing Jing revealed that he is 48 years old and has a 22-year-old son. How can I describe it? How can a quiet son get married and have children? Wenjing is likely to take the position of "grandma" before she is 50 years old.
Some people may know that tranquility has a son for the first time, and they are surprised that tranquility protects his son well. Although the son has never appeared in the public's field of vision, tranquility will still educate the children.
Once in a comprehensive program, Venus once asked Jingning: What would you do if your son was dissatisfied with his girlfriend? Maybe ordinary parents will say, then break up, I don't like it, I will never agree, and so on.
However, tranquility means: What's the use of my dissatisfaction? I don't care. If I really see it, I think it may not be suitable for me. I may make some reminders, but I know I shouldn't directly stop him, thinking that the child is stumbling.
Moreover, tranquility also expresses some other views. She felt that children should not be directly prevented from doing anything. If she does, the child may feel guilty. If she doesn't try, it will be like a pit of fire. You stopped him this time, but he didn't jump. He will jump next time because he didn't try.
Quiet remarks have also been praised by many people. Indeed, parents can help their children for a while, but they can't help them for a lifetime. Letting children experience and understand by themselves must be much better than the result of parents' unilateral indoctrination, and tranquility has also been dubbed "the real world" by netizens.
In fact, Chinese and foreign parents love their children the same, but parents love their children in different ways.
Parents in China tend to "spoil" their children, especially the elderly. They are afraid that the child will fall and feel uncomfortable, and they have done all the protection for the child.
Parents love their children more. Now there are one or two children at home, and almost all the energy and time are spent on them. In order to be considerate, children grow up in this environment and naturally don't understand the dangers in society.
Foreign parents tell their children to be independent and rely on themselves, because once their children are over 18 years old, parents are likely to say that they don't care about their children, so they are very independent.
In fact, parents have their own parenting standards, some for reference, and some for themselves. However, no matter what kind of experience, the essence is good for children. However, parents still need proper defense to give their children independent space and opportunities.
After reading this article, what do you think of the concept of quiet parenting? Will you interfere in the children's affairs? Welcome to leave a message for discussion!
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