Modern view of human nature and humanization of psychological education.
(1) Psychology: The science of studying human nature. From the perspective of the development history of psychology, human nature is one of the focuses of different schools of psychology debates. Different schools have different interpretations of human psychology and behavior based on different views of human nature. It can be said that different understanding of human nature is the theoretical basis for the formation of different schools of psychology, and the hypothesis or viewpoint of human nature is one of the key factors that constitute its psychological theory and system.
Psychology should pay attention to and study human nature. Pan Wei, a famous psychologist in China, pointed out: "Psychology is a major science to study people themselves. The study of psychology should start with people and end with people. Therefore, starting from people, we should have a generally correct view of what people are before the study, which will serve as a guide for the research work. The fundamental task of psychology is to clarify scientifically what man is, so as to fully and correctly understand the essence of man. Therefore, human nature is a very important issue for psychology. " The "problem of human nature" mentioned here is the problem of human nature.
(ii) Debate on the viewpoint of human nature; Some famous thinkers in ancient China expressed their opinions on human nature, which resulted in various theories of human nature. Several representative views are as follows: (1) There is no good or evil in nature, represented by repentance, and there is no good or evil in nature; (2) Sex can be good or bad, represented by Shi Shuo and others, who think that sex can make sex good or bad; (3) The theory of good nature and evil nature holds that some people are good and some are evil; (4) The theory of goodness of nature, represented by Mencius and Dong Zhongshu, holds that there is a certain "goodness" in nature and it can be developed into goodness; (5) The theory of evil nature, represented by Xunzi, holds that human nature is evil; (6) The mixed theory of good and evil represented by Yang Xiong holds that there are both good and evil in human nature, which is a mixture of good and evil.
(C) Divergence: Educational ideas based on the hypothesis of human nature
Although there are obvious differences among various theories of human nature, there is a basic consensus that environment and education play an important role in the development of human nature, and human nature is only the premise and foundation for the development of human nature. A large number of facts show that thinkers and educators who hold different views on human nature will have different educational thoughts and practices. Because of different assumptions and different understandings of human nature, educational purposes, educational functions and educational tasks are fundamentally different, and the choice of educational principles and methods is also different. In a sense, the theory of human nature is the foundation of education. More specifically, the theory of good nature advocates the development of human nature through education; The theory of evil nature advocates transforming human nature through education; The theory of sex without good or evil advocates shaping human nature through education. Specifically, the "development", "transformation" and "shaping" mentioned here will put forward different requirements for the content and methods of education.
Second, appeal and inquiry: the human nature implication of psychological education
Compared with other education, psychological education is produced and developed to meet the needs of the development of human nature. As far as the meaning of psychological education itself is concerned, psychological education should be the most basic human nature education, and it should be the most basic quality education for human beings like basic ethics education or health education. Psychological education should have the characteristics of humanization and become a humanized education that is truly full of humanity and constructs humanity.
In psychological education, it is of little theoretical value or practical significance to simply identify the good and evil of human nature. This requires us to realize a new transformation of the vision of human nature research. Some scholars have put forward the positive and negative theories of human nature, which are enlightening to some extent. The positive orientation and negative orientation of human nature are not equal to the theory of good nature and the theory of evil nature respectively, they are just two fundamentally different ways of looking at the human world. Educators may adopt different educational strategies and methods when they look at the human orientation of the educated. Facing the same educated, educators who have a positive orientation towards human nature should first or mainly pay attention to the potential or realistic good tendencies of the educated; Educators who have a negative orientation towards human nature are always used to paying attention to the potential or actual evil tendency of the educated first or mainly.
From the perspective of Marxist epistemology, we can draw the basic consensus that human nature is generated rather than endowed, diverse rather than identical, heterogeneous rather than homogeneous, open rather than closed, and changing rather than rigid. Therefore, on the issue of human nature and its construction, psychological educators must maintain a pluralistic, open and flexible cognitive style, hold a dynamic, relative and dialectical attitude, and constantly think and understand human nature with innovative and more comprehensive eyes, so as to cultivate and enhance human nature. This is a relatively reasonable and rational view of modern human nature, which may be more instructive for us to better grasp modern human nature and better construct the theory of psychological education.
Reflection and Call: Humanization Trend of Psychological Education
Regrettably, modern education has not taken the development and perfection of human nature as the first goal, not the ultimate goal, but turned people into things from the level of technical function efficiency, and the existence value of human subjectivity has almost been obliterated. In this materialized education, educators only see knowledge, scores, enrollment rate, competitions, honors and bonuses. In their eyes, students are almost synonymous with pockets, ducks, bookcases, containers and tools.
Unhumanized education leads to the lack of human nature, which in turn leads to a series of social problems. A global problem in today's world is the serious imbalance between people's material life and spiritual life. It seems that attaching importance to material, ignoring spirit, ignoring economy and ignoring culture has become a "common disease" in the development of human society. Therefore, saving the spirit and soul of modern people from the power rule of material, technology and utility has become people's expectation and voice for psychological education in today's times.
Since 1970s, with the trend of global education reform, the concepts of "humanization of schools", "humanization of education", "humanization of education" and "humanization of education" are becoming the basic consensus and important features of the world education reform. Once the hypothesis and construction of human nature are linked with the specific education and development problems of a country and a nation, the situation will be different. The reason why we advocate the development and growth of human nature as the priority goal of education is based on this point: without cultivating sound people, there will be no sound society and economy after all.
Rebuilding Modern Humanity: the Historical Mission of Psychological Education
How to mold modern people's perfect humanity through psychological education is a challenging new topic. The most fundamental and effective standard to measure psychological education should be its modern human nature level and its contribution to spreading and promoting the growth of modern human nature. Psychological education that ignores modern human nature will eventually be ignored by modern people. The most important thing to change our concept of psychological education is to return to the foundation of modern human nature construction.
The essence of reconstructing the category of human nature in psychological education is to find a complete human nature with the significance of the times, realize a comprehensive understanding of modern people and the rich connotation of modern human nature, and reconstruct a new psychological education concept on this basis. Modern human nature is a concept in the process of dynamic development, and it is difficult to fully reveal its connotation, but some common characteristics are: modern people are proactive, have a strong sense of subjectivity, have a conscious spirit of innovation, have a civilized lifestyle, have strong ability to adapt to social changes, and are brave in being responsible for themselves and others. The harmony of subjectivity, development, sociality, practicality, creativity and truth, goodness and beauty is an important content or basic connotation of modern human nature.
The basic goal of modern psychological education is to promote the modernization of human nature, or the historical mission is to promote the development of modern human nature. Subjectivity and development are the essential provisions of modern psychological education and the essence and foundation of modern human nature. Subjectivity and development are inseparable. Subjectivity represents the subject of human nature development, and development represents the development of human nature. Modern psychological education promotes modern humanity and highlights the subjectivity and development of modern people, because psychological education "is not only to provide talents for the economy and society; It does not regard people as economic tools, but as the purpose of development. "Its core purport is to promote the promotion of human nature, spiritual liberation and personality development of modern people. In this sense, modern psychological education is a kind of "subjective development" psychological education.
Based on the basic requirements of constructing modern human nature, modern psychological education should truly establish a holistic, all-round, all-round and whole-process psychological education concept, and establish a harmonious and unified psychological education concept of adaptation and development. In other words, there should be a new change in the educational concept, that is, pay attention to the implementation of adaptive psychological education and guide the healthy development of modern human nature; Pay attention to the implementation of developmental psychological education and guide the positive development of modern human nature; Pay attention to the implementation of subjective psychological education and guide the independent development of modern human nature; Pay attention to the implementation of psychological education of all human nature and guide the all-round development of modern human nature.
Promoting and perfecting modern human nature is the starting point and destination of modern psychological education, and it is also the lofty realm that China's psychological education development can strive to pursue. Based on the inherent requirements of constructing modern human nature, modern psychological education should realize the fundamental transformation from "materialized education" to "humanized education", and understand, care for, guide and develop people in a way that belongs to people. Psychological education with human characteristics and functions must start from paying attention to people's psychological needs, truly respect people, respect their personality, pay attention to cultivating sound personality, and actively undertake the historical mission of promoting the development of human nature.
"Extroverted loneliness" is not crying when you are sick and wronged.
There is no such thing in psychiatry at present. As for extroversion autism and autism itself, it is not the same thing. Usually, we call those people who are popular and sociable in daily life, who always have positive energy such as initiative, optimism and humor in front of others, but are unusually quiet when they are alone, like to be alone, and even have a melancholy temperament as extroverted autistic patients, which is a manifestation of urban diseases. Although most extroverted autistic patients have no friends to talk to, extroverted autism is essentially different from medical autism or mental illness.
Ask Du Niang, and you will find that extroversion autism is actually a coined term on the Internet, that is, the online language we speak every day, which is completely different from the medical meaning. In urban life, extroversion autism is just a way of life, which has a lot to do with a person's psychological state. There is no need to worry deliberately without affecting work, life and study. If this situation is beyond the understanding of normal people, or affects people around them, and it also brings disadvantages to their work and life, they may suggest seeing a psychologist. At this time, we need the support and understanding of family and friends.
The true heart of patients with "extroverted autism"
Although extroverted autistic people are good at communication, they are lonely and have no friends to talk to. This psychological state is closely related to the urbanized society in which they live. At the moment of materialistic desires, many people have experienced betrayal or betrayal from relatives, friends and colleagues, which makes the hearts of modern urbanites very fragile and forms an unsafe interpersonal communication mode. They don't trust anyone except their parents and children. A second ago, a friend turned against him for profit. However, in the modern society with fierce competition and complicated interpersonal communication, it is not appropriate to show your true feelings too much in the work process. On the contrary, it will put itself in an unfavorable competitive position, and it will not be appreciated by the leaders and recognized by colleagues and customers. Interpersonal relationship is the pulse of wealth. In a society where popularity paves the way for the future, people must maintain good social relations with others in order to gain a place in the competitive state of the jungle.
On the other hand, people in the workplace are under great pressure at work, and their life and emotional pressures are increasing day by day. If the case is killed, it is normal to work overtime. If you are criticized and educated by the leader, even express delivery will kill you. After returning home, I had to lick the wound alone behind closed doors in order not to let my family worry and let my emotions pass on.
Of course, there are also many people who have to face "bombing intimidation" from their parents after a hard day's work. "When will you bring the object back?" "How is the benefit this month? Did the boss pay a bonus? " In the face of this serial bombing, instead of complaining and being scolded again, it is better to look at the joys and sorrows of others in front of the computer. Sometimes, strangers become the closest people. You can talk to a stranger, vent your inner dissatisfaction and depression like garbage, and then suddenly disappear into each other's time and do nothing.
Although the roads are under your feet, every one is not easy to walk. In the life of urban diseases, we have become "extroverted autistic" patients. Without the mobile phone and intimate friends, there is a lonely heart hidden behind the happy play. The superficial calm is just a protective color, just like Eason Chan's song: "I don't know why, I am like a lonely patient, pulling myself."
"Laughter, cheers, noisy atmosphere, but my heart is cold; The spotlight is a boon, but I can't shout and wait. " Did Eason Chan's Lonely Patient also sing your heart? People are crazy, funny king, leader temperament ... take off the mask of "extroversion" and you may find your true loneliness hidden in your heart. Loneliness is not a disease, but it seeps into people's hearts, releases their hearts, and seeks chicken soup to soothe loneliness.
The cure of "extroversion autism"
Cartoonists stayed on the Internet to launch healing cartoons, and prescribed prescriptions for "extroverted autistic patients" so that netizens who were shot in bullet holes could be revived with blood again.
Dull to say: If the mobile phone stays with you, then change the smart phone into a mobile phone, so that you can only make calls and don't always think about playing;
To put it bluntly: different people have different personalities, as long as everyone stops catering to others, be brave enough to be themselves and get angry;
To put it bluntly: for diseases that are sometimes tense and sometimes calm, give yourself a punch when you are nervous and you will be calm immediately;
Simply put: you will be sad because of what others say, but you will not be found. The prescription for this disease is also very simple, that is, don't suppress sadness into a heart disease, and cry when you are wronged.
These bland remedies may be full of ridicule, but they also contain some reasons to deal with these problems. "I decided to cover the wound and make an antidote for myself according to the cured version." Netizen Amei said.
"Heartache needs heart medicine", urban disease is a common problem of office workers in big cities, but the best treatment scheme still depends on individual self-regulation. If you think boring cartoons are just for entertainment, try some tricks I taught you.
1. Go back to your family and communicate with them. You don't have to believe in any feelings, but you can't help but believe in family. Parents and relatives will always be your strong backing. More communication with parents can not only express feelings and dissatisfaction, but also let elderly parents know the latest information about urban workplace life, so that their later life will not be too backward.
2. Travel alone. It is said that tourism is the best way to relieve stress, and rivers, lakes and seas can make people feel refreshed. Who are you? What do you want? Only by standing in the depths, the wind will hunt and everything will be clear.
3. Loneliness doesn't need to be disguised. Go to the gym more if you have nothing to do. A good attitude is not innate, just like beauty needs to be maintained. The advantage of the gym is that you can not only keep fit, but also vent your emotions. When you are upset, take the sandbag as your opponent and hit it until it is soft; After running 180 laps on the treadmill, you are as tired as a dog. Do you still have the strength to complain about loneliness and brew loneliness? Perhaps, when you feel comfortable, your muscles are quietly nourishing. Yes, extroversion autism is not a disease. Cry when you are wronged!
Music therapy for mental illness is a common method in psychotherapy, so what music can be used to treat mental illness?
At present, China's music therapy for mental illness is largely based on the emotional theory of traditional Chinese medicine. Of course, there are other theoretical bases, such as deep music based on Freud's subconscious theory and Maslow's humanistic music.
But I think we grew up in China, which is more suitable for China's cultural soil and should follow China's own cultural characteristics. According to the theory of traditional Chinese medicine, happiness, anger, thinking, fear and worry are five basic emotions. They restrict and promote each other. For a healthy person, the five emotions are harmonious, and the restriction and promotion are balanced. Among them, worry breeds fear, fear breeds anger, anger breeds joy, and happiness breeds thinking. Worry is better than anger, anger is better than thinking, thinking is better than fear, fear is better than joy, and joy is better than worry, which is a constraint; Mastering these theories, we can master the soul of music therapy, as long as we grasp the emotional tone of music according to its own characteristics and choose different music to treat different psychological diseases.
What music is there to treat mental illness? The following music is commonly used in psychotherapy to share with you:
An Aromatherapy Soul Music-Lotus Series 10
Two soul music-lavender series 1 1
Three Subconscious Music Therapy —— Seven Primitive Energy Restoration Series
Bandari Music Series Timeline Combined with Family Therapy
NLP time-line therapy emphasizes finding the root cause of emotional events through flashbacks, and eliminating the influence of such events on the parties through replay and learning. The arrangement of the family system is to re-integrate the disordered love order in the family system, remove the entanglements in it, make the unresolved grievances reach a settlement, and thus make the love in the system flow again. Timeline therapy is one-on-one, while family system arrangement requires about 20 people in the classroom to treat. If we can combine the treatment of family system arrangement with the treatment of time line, we can make family arrangement more flexible.
In a recent case treatment, when the client returned to the age of three or four, he was very sad to see himself in the incident. At first, she said she was unhappy because her mother didn't make her fish soup as usual that day. So I cut into the treatment of this cause. However, after several conversations, I found that the emotional interference actually came from my mother's unhappiness. She said: "After the quarrel between mother and grandmother, mother was unhappy. She lay in bed and didn't get up for dinner. I feel very sad, very sad. "
In the process of guiding the parties to reinterpret this incident, it is found that it is difficult for the parties to learn and change the box of root causes. Trapped in emotions, unable to get out.
At this time, the light flashed: this situation is the same as in the family system, and children have to bear the pain for their parents. It should be faster and simpler to guide the solution with the treatment of the family row.
So, I asked her to look at her mother's back and said to her mother, "Mom, I am very sad! Because I love you very much, you are sad, and I am sad. I'd like to help you, but I'm just a child and I don't have enough strength. Please allow me to return your responsibility to you. Please allow me to have only one child. I just need to be a child again. "
After repeating these words with me, the client breathed a heavy sigh of relief, his tight face finally eased and his tight shoulders relaxed. After the normal effect test, it is confirmed that the influence of this root event on her has been completely eliminated.
So let her sort out similar events when she was growing up. She quietly sorted out a lot of events, which took about twenty minutes. Every time she finishes sorting out an event, she will gently spit out a sigh of relief and a smile will float around her mouth.
When she packed all her things, I brought her back to the present. She opened her eyes, looked at me with incredible eyes and said, "Thank you so much! It's amazing! This can really be done! I didn't expect it to be useful ... "
When I saw her the next day, my eyes lit up and I couldn't help sighing at her beauty. The day before, she was wearing black clothes and trousers, and her long hair hung down to cover half her face. Today, she is wearing a tight T-shirt skirt with a bright red plaid shawl. Her long hair is neatly tied into a high bun at the back of her head, and her face is charming with a touch of sunshine.
Looking at her with a smile, I said to myself, "Psychotherapists don't do much, but they can bring a lot to people." In the future, we must work hard and make more efforts to let more covered beauty see the sun again. "
It's amazing! Learning some arts can cure psychological problems.
Let art cure your psychological problems. Art is treatment, which means that artistic creation itself has curative effect. However, due to the different training of therapists and the psychological maturity of clients, the atmosphere and significance caused by "art is treatment" are also different. "Art is therapy" includes four levels, one of which goes deeper into the mind than the other. From' Immortality' to' Immortality', from' Doing something' to' Doing nothing', step by step towards the depths of life and deeper depths.
Art therapy can be divided into five types:
Tradition-projecting and interpreting self through artistic creation.
Healing type-'restoring and restoring' self through artistic creation.
Health-preserving type-experience and enjoy yourself through artistic creation.
Spirituality-dispelling and surpassing oneself through artistic creation.
Compounds ──( 1) compounds for personal development tasks. (2) the combination of overall goals between units.
In addition to the traditional art therapy of psychoanalysis, healing, health preservation and spirituality belong to the category of "humanism" and "transpersonal" psychological orientation "art is therapy" Compound type includes the above two kinds.
Art as therapy is an inward travel and exploration. Through artistic creation, people enter the nature of self. From contact with self, self-recovery, self-experience, and then to transcendence. Art therapy is over, art is therapy, and art is self-therapy.
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