Maybe our parents will be good to our children and can give them material satisfaction. Parents don't know how to give emotional satisfaction. When children's emotional needs are not met and they can't feel the sight and understanding from their parents, naturally they will not establish good emotional interaction with others.
Only by establishing contact with others, society and even the vast universe can we find our own value, find our place in the world and experience the value and significance of life.
Children who grow up without emotional education will lead to their lack of empathy, their inability to perceive other people's feelings and ideas, their understanding of problems from other people's perspective, and their experience of the wonderful world from another perspective.
If children lack empathy, they will be self-centered. You can think what I think about this matter, and you can think what I think. Their thinking is single, limited to their own ideas, and there is no way to empathize, let alone empathize. So they don't make friends, don't know how to talk to each other, express empathy, and finally have interpersonal problems.
Nowadays, parents are much more anxious, pay more attention to the cultivation of children's knowledge and skills, and put the cultivation of children's emotions in a dispensable position. It is often emphasized that reading and studying well are not important.
Under the increasing competitive pressure, today's children have to attend cram schools and extra-long classes even on rest days, spend more time on their studies, and have less and less opportunities to play, play and communicate face to face with their peers. A child's lack of emotion will affect his cognition of the world.
Because they are too busy and stressed, they have no extra time and energy to think about the meaning and value of life, or when they think, they find that there is no one to help and guide them, and there is no suitable book to guide them, so they will feel lonely, empty and helpless.
As parents of children, we should pay more attention to talking with them about the significance of philosophy, history and life, and let them know the magic of the universe. Help them open their hearts, give emotional support, and let children see this colorful world; Let them see their own value, grow wings of wisdom, explore themselves bravely, and complete beautiful transformation and growth in the nourishment of relationships.