(1) Parents should set an example for their children, schools should actively guide them, and both sides should work together.
We believe that to educate children well, we must first set an example. Parents are the best role models for children. Only when they do it themselves will the children follow suit. If you just preach and teach, but you can't be a role model for children, then this kind of education is just a treasure, and the education in it won't work at all. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results.
My son's mother is currently a graduate student in a university. For children, this is something he is proud of and a kind of motivation. Although he didn't know how hard it was for his mother to take the postgraduate entrance examination, he was deeply impressed by the sight of her reading quietly in the middle of the night. This is an example to let him understand that only hard work can make his dream come true. The child is already in the first grade. Although the mother is not around, under the inculcation of the father and the school teacher, the child has not only made progress in his studies, but also made gratifying progress in other aspects, becoming a sensible and good child.
(2) Create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop conscious study habits.
My colleague told me that his daughter and niece were admitted to the university in the same year. His experience is to create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop a good habit of self-study. Every night after dinner, he and his wife go out for a walk. After the daughter and niece cleared the table, they went to do their homework. They went home. Children never watch TV when they are doing their homework. Everyone takes a book to read. After a long time, children will form a good habit of working and sleeping. Daughters and nieces often compare each other to see who studies well and who studies late. Last year, in the college entrance examination, both children passed the dream university with excellent results.
(3) Cultivate children's interest, interest is the best teacher.
When my son was young, he liked playing computer games very much. I told him that it was ok to play and play new tricks, such as making slides. When you show them to other children, you will have a sense of accomplishment. So my son learned to make slides and often let other children appreciate and teach them. My son likes English now. At the beginning, my classmate's daughter went to learn English and asked him to follow. Now, he is more and more interested and says to his mother, "There is a classmate in our class who speaks English very well. I want to be like him." I'm glad to see that children love learning English so much. I know my son's Chinese is not very good, and I sometimes worry about him. I really hope he can improve his Chinese, but my son said he would continue to apply for English, and I agreed happily.