It can only be used if the teaching is invalid.
Corporal punishment can only be used when words and instructions are ineffective. As a means of education, language education and guidance should be given priority.
Full communication
Be sure to fully communicate with your child before corporal punishment. Before using corporal punishment, parents must communicate with their children's wrong behavior and let them understand why they are subjected to corporal punishment. The purpose of corporal punishment is to make children realize their mistakes and correct their behavior, not to punish them at will.
Follow the principle of moderation
Corporal punishment must follow the principle of moderation. Corporal punishment should not be excessive, otherwise it will hurt the child's body and mind and have the opposite effect. Generally speaking, corporal punishment is limited to slapping buttocks or palms with the palm of your hand, not kicking with your feet, not hitting with instruments, and not hitting your face or other parts.
Stay sane
Corporal punishment should not be lost in anger. Parents must remain rational before corporal punishment of their children, and calmly think about their own mistakes and the measure and method of corporal punishment before corporal punishment. It is difficult to ensure that corporal punishment of children in a state of rage will not be excessive, which will be counterproductive and hurt children. Corporal punishment must be carried out in a calm state.
Reflection and feedback
After corporal punishment, we should reflect and give back. Parents need to reflect on whether it is excessive, whether it has achieved the purpose of education and whether other measures are needed to strengthen the effect after corporal punishment of their children. It is also necessary to communicate with children in time, listen to their feelings, eliminate any psychological obstacles, let children understand the original intention of corporal punishment, and give comfort at the same time.