Children are the foundation of the country's future development. Those family education institutions that provide parents with ineffective and unrealistic methods to cultivate their children are deceiving parents' trust, wasting parents' time, energy and financial resources and delaying the opportunity to cultivate their children. In essence, these bad systems are endangering the future development of the country.
In the cause of family education, we must go beyond the level of self-interest and teach parents real and effective family education knowledge with a responsible attitude towards the prosperity of the country.
How to measure the effectiveness of family education methods?
In order to prevent parents from learning ineffective methods to cultivate their children, we provide the following three methods to judge:
Children's training methods must be:
1. Let the children be willing to listen to your next sentence, otherwise, the children will not be interested in what you say, and even the best educational concept will not be accepted by the children. If you can't understand, let's ask, if the children don't want to listen to you, how can you do a good job in family education?
2. Communicate with children in a way that children can understand. Children of different ages have different levels of understanding of things. Therefore, children's training methods must be divided into ages. According to children's different ages and different levels of knowledge, adjust the way of communication with children, otherwise the training effect will not be achieved.
For example, if you break a vase, only when children feel the cost of their actions will they think deeply about their actions.
No matter what family education and training methods you have studied, you must be clear when you see your children.
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2) Why do you want to do this?
3) What abilities can children develop by doing this?
-Being able to achieve clear goals is effective. If we can't do it, we need to reflect:
1) Seeing that children don't know how to cultivate, can't they be cultivated?
2) If not now, when can I?
3) Can such ineffective training methods cultivate excellent children?
The growth of children is continuous. Now, what if children lack training methods?
Those family education knowledge that feels very powerful and tall will make your blood boil. If you go home and see your children, you will be at a loss. Such training knowledge not only wastes your energy, but also makes your children miss training opportunities.
Why do super parents put forward the criteria for judging the effectiveness of family education?
The reason is to get rid of the "cramming" family education in society and bring real progress to the development of society.
Now, there are some family education methods in society, saying: parents are originals, children are copies, and children make mistakes, and the roots are all on their parents.
Is this correct?
So, let's assume that he is right.
1. Parents are originals, children are copies, parents can't read, children can't read, parents are not doctoral students, and children can't become doctoral students.
When a child makes a mistake, all the roots are on his parents. Everyone will say, after finding the root cause of the mistake, is there a specific plan for you to improve?
They didn't. They just make you realize where you are wrong and try to cultivate them. If you don't understand them, you need to learn.
What should I do if I can't solve my child's problem at the end of my study?
Let you learn the Book of Changes. Finally, you know that children deserve this. I can't blame others. Thank you for letting me learn so much knowledge!
In this way, this family education and training institution has achieved its goal-earned your money, and you are still very grateful to him.
But what about your children? What should we do?
Therefore, we should use standards to identify and eliminate these "cramming" family education.