The child is very clever and has a strong imitation ability in childhood. So how can we get children to correct their curse?
Avoid the natural environment of swearing and improve children's language. 90% of the factors that children can swear are natural environment. For example, the next-door neighbor, who used to be a smart and polite boy, lived in grandma's house for a year and his temperament completely changed. This is a typical environmental hazard personality trait.
Therefore, in order to correct children's bad habits of swearing, we must first create a natural environment for children not to swear. Parents don't have to follow the example of swearing, and try to reduce the sight of swearing at their children. Where did the child learn swearing? Parents should find out clearly and find the source of imitation.
Rational solution and moderate punishment are actually a way for children to vent their emotions, whether it is swearing or swearing. Children haven't learned how to manage their emotions, and swearing is simple and powerful. If parents mainly show surprise and anger at this time, they will have a "successful" psychology.
In fact, many children swear, because they feel funny, and because the chemical reaction given by people around them is very, very good every time they swear, and children think it is also a very good way to attract others' attention.
And many "disobedient" parents even call their children's personal behavior of swearing "glib", but praise their children's quick response. Some parents think it's funny that children swear, and children laugh when they swear. Because of their main performance, their children find swearing very interesting and often say it.
Some children love swearing because they can't control their emotions when they are young. What parents need to do at this moment is to guide their work correctly and help their children manage their emotions rationally.
It is necessary for natural children to blame their parents for swearing for a long time. But the blame must be appropriate, and it is best to choose one-on-one method. Don't blame him in public, so as not to hurt his self-esteem. Everyone should be careful when criticizing, but there is no need to scold.
The best solution is "Don't reply, don't get angry, don't hit each other". Until five minutes later, both sides calm down. Parents lead their children to the toilet and tell him that it is not good to swear here, then wash them and communicate with their children's needs.
From the shallow to the deep, gradually and correctly guide, in addition to setting an example by parents themselves, it goes without saying that it is necessary to help children change their swearing habits with external help. For example, some children do not correct their mistakes and ignore their parents' basic education. At this time, mother can educate her in other ways. If a child has a favorite cartoon character, she can educate him with cartoon character culture: Pleasant Goat hardly curses, so other sheep will love him and he will be so smart.
At the same time, let children know the true meaning of "swearing". Many children just learn their tongues by myna and don't know what it means. For example, when a child says "leg rolling", you need to tell him that "leg rolling" is for the wicked. If it is said to your friends and family, it means that you don't warmly welcome him.
When a child says someone else is a "big fat pig", you need to tell him that "big fat pig" means uglier than people, and others will go home and cry.
Wait for the children and communicate with them. They swear, perhaps expecting attention. After understanding the child's way of thinking, parents can gradually swear at their children! If the child is angry, parents should grasp the child's emotions, start with the things that cause the child to be angry, deal with things first, and then deal with the problem of swearing. Before here, adults should calm down, and their emotions are not easy to manipulate. How do they educate their children?
Parents must attach great importance to children's swearing, swearing and even doing some rude things. Habit is cultivated from childhood, and it is also the main factor to shape a person's temperament. Parents don't have to endanger their children's future development trend because of their carelessness. It is their responsibility and obligation to choose the correct way to help children gradually develop good habits. As long as they look carefully, they can definitely change.