My self-esteem and self-confidence are damaged, resulting in negative self-evaluation, social barriers, depression, lack of security, and reduced self-regulation ability, which affects the parent-child relationship. For the healthy growth of children, parents should adopt more active, encouraging and supportive educational methods to help children build up self-confidence and cultivate good psychological quality and interpersonal skills.

As a child, parents' aggressive education may have the following effects on children:

1. Impaired self-esteem and self-confidence: Parents' aggressive education is often accompanied by denial and criticism of children, which will make children have self-doubt and doubt their own abilities, thus damaging self-esteem and self-confidence.

2. Form a negative self-evaluation: Due to frequent blows from parents, children may form a negative self-evaluation that their own abilities are insufficient and inferior to others, which will have a long-term adverse effect on children's psychology.

3. Social barriers: Affecting education may cause children to be afraid of interacting with others and worry that others will have negative comments on themselves, thus forming social barriers.

4. Suppress emotions: Children who grow up in an aggressive education environment may habitually suppress their emotions and dare not express their needs and feelings, which may lead to mental health problems.

5. Insecurity: Children may feel insecure about the surrounding environment because they are often denied and criticized by their parents, and worry that they will not be recognized and supported by others.

6. Reduce self-regulation ability: Impact education may affect children's self-regulation ability, making it difficult for them to adjust their emotions and behaviors in the face of setbacks and difficulties.

7. Affecting parent-child relationship: Affecting education may lead to children's rejection and hostility to their parents and affect the harmony of parent-child relationship.