1, think from the standpoint of others. When we are in conflict, we might as well start from the standpoint of others and maybe find a solution to the problem. If you really can't find it, you might as well choose the middle zone, which is fair to everyone. If I were you, analyze it carefully and put myself in other people's position at once, even the opposing emotions will be eased a lot, because others will gradually understand you if they feel respected.

2. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. I find people who have experienced poverty, frustration and pain. Because he has personal experience of these things, it is easier to understand others and will not impose these things on others. If the supermarket stands at the counter, people who don't know how to shop; If you are a doctor, you don't understand patients; Mothers don't understand their babies. I only have myself in my heart and don't care about others. Then our society will be unimaginable. Please respect and understand others more, and don't impose unnecessary pain on others.

3. Everyone is unique. Everyone thinks he is important, but forgets that others think so. When you want to improve a person's relationship, keeping him in your heart is the best shortcut. In daily life, such contradictions are exposed and should be avoided as much as possible.

4. Respect is the premise of understanding. If you can't even respect, you don't even need to understand. Presumably, interpersonal relationships are also a mess.