First, find the reasons for introversion;
First of all, it is necessary to find out the reason why children are unwilling to associate with others, whether they are too shy in personality problems, not confident in themselves, or being squeezed out by their peers. All these require parents to patiently ask the reasons and find the root causes, and they can't force their children to contact others blindly.
When you can stand in the child's position and feel his feelings, the child will be willing to open up to you.
Second, parents lead by example and guide their children;
If the child likes to play alone because of his personality, and he is happy to stay alone, then as long as it does not affect his participation in social activities, there is not much problem;
If children lack self-confidence, for example, some babies are not as good as their peers because of their late development, or because they are not confident in appearance, or because of family reasons, parents should also help them build self-confidence.
Children are sensitive, don't feel self-esteem just because they are young. Praise and encourage children's behavior and ability, take children out and participate in peer activities.
If the child doesn't want to participate, don't be forced. More often, parents should set an example, let their children imitate, and encourage and praise them when appropriate, so that children will accept it more easily.
Third, don't overdo it.
Parents and children should understand that introverted and shy personality is not a shortcoming. Introverts have the advantage of introversion. Although they are not as easy to get along with people as extroverted children, it doesn't mean that they are worse than extroverted children.
In this era of information explosion, introverts are more likely to succeed, for example, they can calm down and do things more easily, concentrate more easily, and are not easily influenced by external and media information, and so on.
As long as the child's personality is not quite disgusted and disgusted with people and does not affect normal social activities, there is no need to worry too much. Children will have their own choices, and we should respect them.
To sum up, children are too shy and introverted, which is not necessarily a psychological problem. Parents should first find out the reason and then prescribe the right medicine. The best way is to consider the problem from the child's point of view, and at the same time set an example to cultivate children's ability to communicate with others.
I hope the above will help you.
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