Children are the continuation of parents' lives and the hope of parents. It is the natural mission of human beings to have children. Every parent's "life" is for their children; "Education" is to teach children the skills and skills to grow and develop. Parents have the obligation and instinct to "educate" when they have children. Parents are children's first teachers and role models.

Whether we can correctly treat the setbacks and failures in children's growth is also a measure of parents' own educational quality. I remember once a child came back with a math test paper, "88 points!" " "The child hung his head and was very nervous. Naturally, I was very dissatisfied with this achievement, but I didn't complain about him immediately. Instead, read the test paper carefully together, and carefully analyze the reasons for losing points with the children after reading it. Seeing that he was still unhappy, I said to him, "Everyone has to go through the process from ignorance to knowledge. Of course, there will be bad knowledge in learning. Examination is one of the ways to test the mastery of knowledge. Through the exam, you can find your own shortcomings, correct them in time, and lay a good foundation of cultural knowledge! Right? " The child nodded, and his nervous expression was obviously relieved. I went on to say, "In one's life, there are many more failures than successes. Ronald Reagan, the American president, failed 33 times and didn't become president until he was 83 years old. So, failure is the mother of success, right? Only by bravely facing setbacks and failures and being good at summing up experience can we truly embark on the road to success. There's a song you like, which sings "If you don't experience the storm, you will see the rainbow", right? "The child nodded thoughtfully." It doesn't matter if you don't do well in an exam. As long as you are confident and willing to work hard, my mother believes that you will get better results. You must be the best! "It's a lot of trouble. In the next math unit exam, he got a good score of 100.

As parents, we must understand that when children encounter failure, what they need more is their parents' care and help. Score is not the only criterion to measure a child, but to understand the child's mastery of knowledge from the number of exams, analyze the lack, encourage him to make up his studies in time, and make progress in his studies.

In fact, in the process of every child's growth, there are times when he "lies". I remember when my daughter was 8 years old, one day she told me that she would pay the teacher 1 yuan pocket money. When I came back from school, I accidentally found a beautiful eraser in her pencil box. I asked her the source of the eraser, and she faltered. I knew there was something wrong with her when I saw the way she spoke, so I said to her more gently, "Speak for yourself. It doesn't matter. I made a mistake. As long as I change it, my mother still likes it. " Because mother likes honest children "(we have taught her this way since childhood, so she is less likely to make mistakes). She whispered, "Mom, I'm sorry! I was wrong today. I want money to buy an eraser. I really like this beautiful eraser! " I said, "well, this beautiful rubber mother likes it, too!" However, if you like something, you can speak out boldly and your mother will agree to buy it. Lying is not good. " The daughter nodded wisely. In my opinion, most children don't mean to lie, and their lies don't belong to social moral problems. Parents should treat this behavior correctly when their children are growing up. After discovering this situation, they can't beat and scold rudely, nor can they let it go. The result of rough beating and cursing is that the child not only hasn't changed, but also dares not say anything after doing bad things. The result of letting go is to push your children in the wrong direction. Therefore, in the process of educating children, parents should bend over and listen to their children's voices, look at problems from their perspective, and adopt reasonable educational methods to deal with problems. To believe that every child is essentially good, the key is how we adults educate!

Watching children grow up day by day, they begin to have their own thoughts and opinions. I think parents should understand and respect their children while educating them, treat them with a normal heart, and let them thrive and become good citizens.