Parents are the best role models for children. Cultivating the good habit of being calm and not using force to solve problems from an early age is helpful for children to shape their independent character. This paper will provide parents with effective methods to cultivate their children's excellent character from four aspects.

Cultivate good habits

Cultivating children's good habits from an early age helps to shape their independent character. Parents can lead by example, start from themselves, guide their children to be calm when things happen, and don't force them to solve problems, so that children can calmly cope with future challenges and don't easily blame others.

Broaden the social circle

Invite friends of the same age to play at home and let the children experience the happiness of the young master. This interaction not only increases children's self-confidence, but also shapes their cheerful personality. Children's friendship is an indispensable asset in their growth.

Protect children's self-esteem

Respect children's feelings, care about their behavior and encourage them to express their opinions. Avoid simple and rude education methods and let children grow up with care. Cultivate children's ability to cope with difficulties, maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, and let setbacks become a boost to growth.

Deep communication

Communicate with children more, understand their real thoughts and needs, encourage them to express their views and establish contact with their partners through language. Every communication with children is a touch of the heart. For introverted children, parents' patience and guidance are needed.