After a long time, it will affect the establishment of children's self-confidence and even produce a psychological tendency of inferiority. The influence of education can even run through a person's life. From this perspective, repressive education is not good for children's sound personality.
2. It is easy to cultivate children with inferiority.
The so-called inferiority complex is more serious than the lack of self-confidence. People with inferiority complex are unwilling to test their inferences about themselves, do not believe in their own self-worth, and are too sensitive to interpersonal relationships and society.
They will think that they are useless, that everything they do is wrong, that they are sensitive, self-abased, suspicious, unconfident and even in a state of depression and anxiety for a long time.
For example, the words "How could I have given birth to a stupid child like you, and I can't do anything better than others" were suppressed, and the spirit of "Look at the children of the Lao family next door, they are the first in the class every year, so look again" was suppressed.
3. Children are easily rebellious.
Children who have been suppressed for a long time, once their self-awareness is strong enough to resist, tend to be rebellious, have their own way, have a very bad temper, are very tired of their parents' preaching, feel disgusted with their parents, and feel strange about their families.